I'm went out with another boy(he's a very nice boy) for two times.After my ex got to know about this, he always messages me to tell me that he's very sad and jealous and regret that he didn't cherish me last time and ask about that boy as well. He also said he punched his sister b'cos he was too frustrated. I'm really sick of him. What can i do? i don't want him to do anything stupid. Why can't he just leave me alone? i want to live my life, go out with friends, get to know more people and if i find the right guy, get into a relationship again. I don't want him asking about who i'm going with everyday and threatening me that if i don't tell him his gastric pain will act up. Advice?? :-) Thanks.
2006-10-03 13:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He told me that the boy i'm going out with is a playboy two days ago...and it made me very confused for a while...i think that he's jealous. But he really treated me very badly when i was his girlfriend! That's why i had to break up with him!
2006-10-03 14:04:54 · update #1
It sounds to me as though he still has feelings for you and is regretting losing you. He must think that you are a great catch, and is seeing that after the fact. He probably wants to know what kind of guys you are going out with just so that he can either compare them to himself, or tell you that they aren;t good enough for you. All you can do is to tell him exactly what you said here: that it is over and you want to live your life as your own without someone constantly questioning you. However, be gentle with him when doing this; try not to be harsh. He'll eventually get the message.
2006-10-03 14:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still close friends? When he asks tell him that you would aren't comfortable telling him that information, if he threatens you with his health problems inform him that if it's going to be a problem for him than you will remove yourself from his life and stop taking his calls or talking to him. What he's doing to you is a form of abuse and it needs to stop. Be the adult (or at least the more mature child) and put a stop to it. If it continues consider talking to a counselor at school or with his parents to see if you can get him some help.
2006-10-03 14:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by maes_quest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to leave you alone and then if he calls you ignore his calls, if u see him ignore him to your best ability. Sooner or later he should get the hint. If not you can always resort to a restraining order
2006-10-03 14:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by Katy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off any contact at all! He doesn't sound right in the head at all. Just block everything, and see what happends. Goodluck sweetie.
2006-10-03 14:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by waterchick1822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-02 08:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it is over. Period. If he messages you, or calls you .. you have to ignore it. If you talk to him at all, it will just encourage him to keep trying. Good Luck! :)
2006-10-03 14:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block him from calling you or text messaging you. I hope his sister kicked him in his nose!
2006-10-03 13:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him and his texts.
2006-10-03 14:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE PUNCHED HIS SISTER!?!?!??!?! TELL THE COPS!!!!! IF HE DOES THAT TO FAMILY WHAT WILL HE DO TO YOU!?!?!?!? RESTRAINING ORDER!!!! BUY PEPERSPRAY AND PROTECION/DEFENSIVE THINGS, KNIFES,GUNS,BRASSKNUCKLES....AAAAAAAAAAGHHH COCAINE!!!!AHHFDSHALFAKLSDF~!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-03 14:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ψ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his A**
2006-10-03 13:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋