im a guy but i find it hard to tell girls i like them or even talk to them,but when i have a chance to talk to a girl i try to have conversation. but i was wondering if you were talkng to a guy that you just started talking what would you like them to say? and what body language would i give them to say i like them?
2006-10-03 13:55:41 · 11 answers · asked by dodgers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look them in the eyes and smile and listen to her. if she says something you agree with, nod, or at least let her know u care about what she says. there are a bunch of ways to start a conversation, but it depends on what type of girl she is. if shes preppy, ask her about what she did this weekend, if shes punk, what her favorite band is, if shes shy, whats her favorite class, u know stuff like that.
2006-10-03 14:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
=) . First thing's first, is to smile. Act friendly, and be yourself. You can talk about anything and everything from the weather to how you're feeling just at that moment. You can talk about a story or two that have happened to you and entertain her, or.. whatever that comes to mind. If you screw up and of course just end up acting like an idiot, a jerk, or a super shy guy and think that you've just blew it.. keep in mind that she might have actually found it kinda cute. So don't be discouraged if that ever happens. Overall, if she likes you for you, then great. If she doesn't, then just wait for someone that will. Remember, no fronts or disguises or acting tough or cool or anything like that .. just be yourself. It's actually much more appealing. Anyone ever told ya that?
Before you want to tell a girl that you like her, at the very least, first take the chance to get to know her. That way you can see if you would still like being around her and well .. get to know her a bit better. But when you do, just say it. Just tell her. With either words, or through some sort of confession so that she gets the message loud and clear. That way there will be no misunderstandings.
=D .
Best of luck in love and in life. ;] . Hope I was of help.
2006-10-03 21:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by xxeverlasting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath to calm yourself before going up to her. Girls can be nervous too, remember. Act casual, but not impolite or disrespectful. Put yourself in a comfortable position too. Smile, talk, give compliments; act like your talking to a friend. Ask them about their day or something. Most importantly, do your best to relax. If the girl's a good one, she'll understand that you're nervous and be nice to you. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-10-03 21:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Squeaky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you talk to a girl, dont be having side conversations at the same time.
just turn around and face her and act like shes the only one there, but if you see one of your friends, jsut casually wave and say hi, whats up, and that head nod think you guys seem to do a lot, but dont jsut start talking to them, go right back to that girl
now are you talking like, girl you want to go out w/, homecoming w/ [idk what like, grade your in or w.e], or like a friend?
just ask her how her how she is, and if she just says good just be like 'oh ok nothing special blaaah well i just ran into a door so im sure that was a nice highlight for everybody else' or you know, something that you did that was really stupid-jsut make her laugh but dont sound like your trying to hard.
body language-just act relaxed. if your moving around or like, stifting and jiggling you either look nerdy or horny; 2 things that are really awkward for her hahah
bottom line-relax. we arent going to eat you.
oh, one more thing-dont be a pervert. ew.
2006-10-03 21:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isnt really a sure way for a girl to know that you like her without telling her. Just be friendly, and talk about little things- the weather, stupid little things like that. always smile- and pay attention to her when she talks.(that is always a good thing) when it comes to you telling her that you like her- just tell her. just say "i like you". i know its nerve racking- but she wont know any other way. even if she doesnt feel the same way- girls are always flattered to find out a guy likes them- so she wont be mean. just bite the bullet and tell them. little hints to girls that you like them is if you smile to them a lot and if you look at them- but not in a creepy stalkerish sort of way. good luck!
2006-10-03 21:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask how their day was, how is school going, and whatever else she is involved in ask her how that is going. If you really like a girl, keep it up every day that you see her and just be friendly and be you. You will sooner or later find the right girl that clicks with you. Maybe you have not found the right girl, yet. Keep trying and good luck.
2006-10-03 21:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Horse Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i just starded talking to a guy i would like him to talk to me has if i was the only girl on the universe at that very moment, his body language would be he has to look at me in the eye when he is talking to me kind of close to me but not too close, No wondering eyes, his body would have to be facing my body. woman love funny/sensitive guys. make them laugh a bit not too much jokes cause that just kills it, try not to be too geaky or sound too despread k.
2006-10-03 21:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them your pretty or i like your hair say something nice
2006-10-03 20:58:09 · answer #8 · answered by voluptuousdiva4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with each. just find out thing that both of yall have in common.
2006-10-03 20:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by bear_76690 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a note and have your best friend deliver it if ur too shy to do it yourself.
2006-10-03 20:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋