My best friend came over to my house a week ago, crying about her boyfriend. Hes been asking her a lot about having sex and she doesn't want too. Then last week he told her that he liked her still but wasn't really interested because she wasn't showing her "love" to him (having sex). I think that is horrible because she is such a good person and doesn't need to be treated like that. She didn't even break up with. So when I told him off she got mad at me! I was just protecting her. This is her first serious boyfriend and I think that is why she won't break up with him.
2006-10-03 13:54:16 · 31 answers · asked by Alexis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has to wake up and smell the roses. I've been in love before, and he was my first real and serious boyfriend, but I knew what I had to do. If he always wanted to have sex with me, and I didn't want to, I would've broken up with him. The guy is an idiot to want to have sex, all the time, and to not respect her wishes, means that the only reason he was with her in the first place, was because he wanted to use her, for sex. Chances are, that if she DID have sex with him, he would've tossed her aside, after, and she would've been even more mad than she is now. I personally think, that what you did was right, and she shouldn't be mad at you, for standing up for her. She'll come around eventually, and when she does, you'll finally be able to take a load off.
2006-10-03 13:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by Nessa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur buddies are dorks u adult males are appearing like freakin 5th graders i recommend which you tell ur friends to advance up and end their little cleansing soap opera they're spazing out over some thing so ridiculouss yet while u did tell the girl ( i'm no longer sayin that u did) that replaced right into a bad determination. i asked to head removed from an anoying baby that replaced into distracting me and that i've got been given moved, no ones emotions have been harm and each little thing replaced into cool (the girl replaced into my chum too) get new buddies
2016-10-18 10:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd recommend killing the boyfriend. But make it look like an accident. Kidnap him and park his car next to a cliff, and throw off the body. It'll be easy, trust me. Just kidding, but really, I'd recommend minding your own business and letting them figure it out. Tell your friend what you think, but don't force her to do anything, if you're too demanding, she'll just get pissed.
2006-10-03 13:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to be a friend offer advice when its asked of you but dont get involved in her relationship, be her shoulder to cry on if thats what she needs but stay out of the arguments and dont stick up for her. If your friend is going to be in a serious relationship she needs to learn to be an adult and not expect her friends to handle her problems for her.
2006-10-03 13:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by dollie480 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, this is something that your friends going to have to decide for herself. If he keeps pressuring her, shes going to break and do the deed. Soon she'll open her eyes and realize she deserves better and if he really loved her, would sex be an issue?
2006-10-03 13:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend about how u feel and let her tell her boyfriend off, it's not your job, but u were looking out for. If he thinks having sex will prove she really care for him, then there is not much in this relationship anyway. Sex should be mutual and if she 's not ready, then don't do it just to please him
2006-10-03 14:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by sagie29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that your friend is stupid its just that love is blind to certain people a person can be so horrible to you but if you are in love you wont see it that is what happened to me my boyfriend treated me bad and then someone got mad that he was and they told him off and i yelled and said why did you do that eventually she will realize he isnt good enough for her or she will not and finally give in to him
2006-10-03 14:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by thugluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is a person your friend shuld stay away from. he is only in it for the sex. if he was a true bf then he would understand her decision and thn wen the time is rite for both of them they will do 'it'. you did the rite thing by telling him off but you should be more supportive to your friend telling her that if he only wants sex she should leave him. if he really liked her he would cme back and say sorry
2006-10-03 13:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by wassup 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your friend is not the stupid one. You were upset that she's being treated that way, but you have no right to tell her b/f off. If anyone's going to be telling him off, it should be your friend. That is why she's mad at YOU.
2006-10-03 14:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right in your observation of this guy. However, without your friends permission, it probably wasn't the best thing to do to bawl him out. It's her choice. Good Luck! :)
2006-10-03 13:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋