mood swings,accusing me of things i don't think i do? i'm feeling kinds helpless?
2006-10-03 13:53:18 · 9 answers · asked by byafantasy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look i have been with a woman who is bi-polar for 6 1/2 years she has done all the same things to me including abrasive behavior. the thing is she was not on the right medication and the paranoia of loosing me kicked in and it made our relationship. really hard to deal with there has been times i wanted to throw it all away and never look back .. but then we kept on going to the dr's until we found the right meds and a good counselor whom most importantly she likes and our relationship has become better than i could ever hope for.. she is 35 im 34 and we are getting married in febuary, so hang in there if ya love him and help him get the right help and every thing will pay off... if you dont think you can handle it then leave now the road is hard but with enoug understanding and patience your relationship can prevail.
2006-10-03 14:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to give some more information. If you are not living together, I would suggest that you distance yourself. You need to know up front, which you do, of his emotional state. Maybe this is not right for you. It can be so hard to deal with and you have to make the decision of if it is something you want to deal with for the rest of your life or not. You might be wasting your time. If he is accusing you of things, then that is definitely a bad sign, no matter if he is bipolar or not. I am not sure how you should deal with it. If he is emotionally abusing you--blaming you, accusing you, then you should really about the future of where this is headed. It will only get worse if he is not going to counseling.
2006-10-03 14:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by just julie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its time to head for the door if your not married to the guy you don't have to stick around and waste your young life helping a mentally challenged man. he is enjoying making you feel guilt if you leave. but if you want to stick around for misery , ulcers, depression and you dying go right ahead cus while you have all those diseases his mentally crazed self will still be on earth living. think about it marriage your in it for the long haul but dating a person with those kind of issues you need to leave them its not healthy for your mental well being . an it desn't make you a bad person to get away from the stress.i watched alifetime movie with this same story and the girlfriend with the eating disorder couldn't help her bi-polar boyfriend he let her committ him to the mental ward and they brokeup because he wouldn't take his medicine no more. think of you mental well-being , but the stress of caring for paranoid mental ppl is depressing and stressful an it kills your body, mind and takes a toll on you.
2006-10-03 14:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is BiPolar and I understand of what you are going thru. Is he taking his medication properly? That is the main key and sees the dr. frequently. My wife goes every three months to the doctor. Just hang in there and have patients.
2006-10-03 13:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he needs to get on and stay on meds other wise you are out. If he is not going to take responisbility for his illness, you don't need to put up with the bullsh#t that goes with it.
2006-10-03 13:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a gal who lives with this guy who has multiple personalities, it works cause she wants to see other people.
2006-10-03 14:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you'll deal with it, but this doesnt mean your alone you can get help from an expert,
2006-10-03 13:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
end it if he cared about u he wouldnt do tht to u i mean i wouldnt do tht to a girl tht i loved tht would b messed up
2006-10-03 13:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Nagasaki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um break up with him, he's just dragging you down and hope he doesnt kill himself when you do it!
2006-10-03 13:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by encantame. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋