I have a boyfriend who recently broke up with his girlfriend. The problem is that he isnt ready to be all in love in front of her. Thats getting me really upset. He likes me and I like him but he hasnt told his exgirlfriend that we are dating. What should I do about my boyfriend I don't think its fair that we cant kiss because of her. Please help me.
2006-10-03 13:47:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like he's really still stuck on his ex and has feelings for her if he wont even kiss you in front of her.... you might just be the rebound girl, though I hate to say it.
Oh and he shouldnt have to tell her you're dating, because it's none of her business and she's not involved in your relationship. He's being unfair to you and it seems like he just cares about what she thinks, rather than you right now.
2006-10-03 13:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by shortee807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if she doesn't know that you're even together and that's why he doesn't want her to see you guys' displays of affection or if she does know but he feels awkward doing it in front of her for some reason, (ie. it's too soon so it feels weird to him kissing someone else, epsecially while she's around).
It's probably because he still has feelings for her though, and you should let him know how much it hurts you that you cannot kiss him in front of her and if he is not ready to move on, then at least he'd be honest. Tell him he can call you when he is ready and if you still want to be with him, you guys can talk and go from there. There's no sense in you getting sad and hurt if he's interested in someone else. Better to find out, the sooner the better.
Good luck!
2006-10-03 21:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by maryjane green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesnt seem like you actually have a boyfriend what you have is a man on the rebound. Since you cant even kiss its certainly a sign that maybe the two of you should not be together right now. If you really like him give him some space until he is comfortable with leaving his girlfirend.
2006-10-03 20:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by dollie480 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's too soon for him, so gently tell him you can wait but you want to be in a real relationship, not a secretive one. It's only fair to you. If he really likes you there should be no worries- he'll come around. It sounds like you're both young, so it won't be the end of the world if he doesn't!
2006-10-03 20:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by akflame81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay sister, he's just rebounding off of you. You arent really his girlfriend. You are the one he turned to when he stopped feeling good and manly. Having you makes him feel better, like he's not a loser who cant get a woman, but he still wants her. I have been through this. Give it up, he still has baggage.
2006-10-03 20:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a great guy. Since he broke up with her , he is just being respectful to her. Get over it and hope he treats you as well when he breaks up with you.
2006-10-03 20:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go because he's not ready to make that step with you and it sounds like he is not goin to try either go find someone for YOU and not for their ex
2006-10-03 21:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's trying to hide your relationship from his so called ex. Or are you even so sure she's his ex??? Not right. Make him be straight w/ you and her both or get rid of him.
2006-10-03 20:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time for 1 of those loooooooooong talks BORINGG!!!!! but hoo cares ummm maybee u shood try talkin to his ex about this n tell her dat ur dating him n then she might understand....or she could start one of those CAT FIGHTS oh no well u wood probably win anyway n then u cann enjoy spending time with ur bf more often
2006-10-03 20:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by chrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him away it seems to me like he cares more for that other girl then he does for you if he cared about then he wouldn't care if you guys kissed in front of her and why does he have to tell her that you guys are dating?
2006-10-03 20:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by It's MEEEE!!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋