2006-10-03 13:25:00 · 18 answers · asked by soulsisteris2cool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My daughter is now 20 and i find out that she likes girls ! Im worried about this for her and i need to know should we have a talk or let her be with this...girl she loves
2006-10-03 13:26:23 · update #1
Do you love your daughter? Of course you do.
Will you always agree with her choices? No.
But she is your daughter, and she needs her Mom to be there for her and to understand that she is her own person, that she is an adult and she's going to be making adult choices. If she is happy, then fantastic. Support her, love her and let her live her life how she chooses.
2006-10-03 13:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Gina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is going to be a shock to you finding out that your daughter is not attracted to men. But if you love your daughter you will accept it. She is an adult and is mature enough to to understand her feelings. It is not your choice to decide if your daughter is gay or not. This does not make her a bad person though and it also does not make you a bad mother that you are not totally happy about it. I do think you should talk to her about but I don't think you should tell her that her decision is wrong.
2006-10-03 20:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Alexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would investigate to see if this is just a phase with her. Look at how she has maybe changed in the past year or two. Then, if you can establish a real threat, then just go with the flow. She will resent you even more if you go against what she wants to do. If you are supportive, she will feel glad to be able to come back to you if she really isn't a lesbian. Hope you can figure it out.
2006-10-03 20:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Help 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How did you "figure" this out? Just ask her and assure her that you still love her and be honest about your own feelings. You daughter may be relieved that you brought it up. Good Luck!
2006-10-03 20:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by drtcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock her in a closet and spray her with water until she turns straight...is that still legal? If not, just accept it because you're not going to change her. Embrace it and try to capitalize on it with a website for perverts to go to. Just tryin to make the best out of it.
2006-10-03 20:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by Orlando Fitzsimmons 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The same thing if you found out that she was dating a man. Support her and love her and let her know that it's her choice not yours.
2006-10-03 20:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by kholbee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you afraid you will catch cooties if you let her be with another girl? Accept her for who she is, and if she brings her girlfriend over accept her girlfriend too, other wise you would be a really sh!tty parent to have.
2006-10-03 20:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by Niche Jerk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will have to figure it out for herself if he wants to be with the same sex. if not then she will change her mind. no one but her can choose her feelings you should support her in her decisions
2006-10-03 20:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by Joeys Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you still love her so don't let it get to you she is still the same person
2006-10-03 20:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by jbmasterdragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should anything happen? That doesn't make her any less human.
2006-10-03 20:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋