well me and this guy have had sex a couple of times and he's older than me and i think he keeps nuttin in me he won't tell me he did til he gets mad at me then he'll say i'm pregnant and all that i don't know y he keeps sayin that is he tryin to get me pregnant or is he just sayin that to make me more mad cause he knows i don't want him to nutt in me i really don't want kids by him but the sex feels so good and i don't know what to do i think i should just make him wrap it up what do yall think what do i do if i am pregnant though im against abortion but i don't know what to do
2006-10-03 13:24:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
GO to a planned parent hood and you can get birth control and or condoms. I'm not sure how old you are but you can do that and he want know your on something. It's better then getting pregnant. I have kids and if your not ready for them you should tell him to rap it up and if he say I don't have a condom go get some so you know your ok.
2006-10-03 13:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by lucille692003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a controlling step towards an abusive relationship. Abuse can be psychological as well as physical. When you speak of having him wrap it up, if you mean have him use a condom, that's one step, especially in preventing STDs. You could also use contraceptives. That would give you peace of mind about low probability of getting pregnant while still enjoying the sex. On the matter of abortion, that one is entirely up to you. If you do become pregnant, you always have the option of going through the pregnancy and putting the baby up for adoption if your guy won't step up and take care of you and the baby.
Again, I'll say your description of his getting mad and saying you are pregnant is not a positive attribute in a good relationship. Best thing would be to get out while the getting is good.
2006-10-03 20:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by Carl S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is trying to get you pregnant you have alot to worry about. Why would you even have sex with someone who you wouldn't potentially have kids with anyway? You need to think about what you need more. A baby by someone you can't stand to be with except sexually because it feels good, or your freedom to grow up a little bit and then take the responsibility and make the next poor fool wear one of those things that have been around longer than you have been alive called a CONDOM!!!
2006-10-03 20:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by barbara_taylor17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't want to have a baby for this man then y in the hell are u
F U C K I N G him with out birth control. and where is the damm condom. who u trying to fool gurl, r are u stupid? get real and grow the F U C K up. this day and age u gotta use a condom a baby is the lest of your worries. ain;t no dick that good to risk your life for it. and how come u don't know when he about to nut the rhythm changes. F U C K I N G is for grown folks not kids that don't know what to do.
2006-10-03 20:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lady B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to understand what you are talking about but I think you should dump him and take some speech classes. Yes, sex feels good but it feels great when you are with someone who loves you. There are lots of sex toys that you can use by yourself because I pray you don't have a baby until you get an education.
2006-10-03 20:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP LAYING WITH HIM BECAUSE HIS A**SS IS LOONEY
WHY THE HE11 WOULD ANYONE PLAY WITH THAT SITUATION I MEAN NOT ONLY CAN HE GET U PREGNANT BUT A DISEASE U KNOW STD'S WITH AN S ON THE END GET SOME KIND OF BIRTH CONTROL NOW
IF HE COMES OUT IN HAS NOTHIN TO LET SHOOT THEN YES HE GOT IN U
BUT ALSO HIM CONSTANTLY CUMMIN IN U CAN SET UP AND INFECTION THAT CAN KILL U SO STOP HIM WHILE U ARE AHEAD BECAUSE THIS IS ALL AROUND BAD
DONT PLAY GAMES WITH YOUR LIFE CAUSE MORE THAN LIKELY YOU WILL LAND ON DEATH.
GOOD LUCK
GET IT RIGHT
AND KEEP HIM OUT
2006-10-03 23:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pregnant and dont want a baby just put it up for adoption.If your not pregnant then get some birth control and make him use a condom.
2006-10-03 22:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by wvcountrygirl_93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you use a condom or get on Birth Control? If you don't want to get pregnant with his child, I would think that that may be the best thing to get on or do.
2006-10-03 21:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to be sure that you won't get pregnant is not to have sex other then that there's always a chance.
2006-10-03 20:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? How old is he? I think FIRST you need to go get on birth control, AND make ANYONE you have sex with wear a condom. How do you know this man does not have AIDS, gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes or ANYTHING else? You need to protect yourself AND any possible pregnancy. Please respect yourself more than that! Be Safe!
2006-10-03 20:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by mom_of_4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋