So i'm 22 have a fiance and i've realized i've been bi all my life. I fantasize about women mostly so maybe i'm a lesbian. But i just need to know where to meet them, and how in the world do i not make a fool of myself if i try to talk to someone.
2006-10-03 13:20:18 · 13 answers · asked by tooconfused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do you feel that you need to act upon this urge? just because you find women attractive doesn't mean that you want to have sex with them. fantasizing or not. if you really love your fiance and are happy with him, then i don't understand why you feel you need to risk screwing that up to fulfill this possibility in your head. i would say this even if you said there was another guy you were thinking about in a similar way..... just because it looks good doesn't mean its going to be good.... is it worth the risk of screwing everything up with your fiance?
2006-10-03 13:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. I would start out by telling your fiancee that you might be gay. So before you think about trying to meet anyone you need to seperate from him. After that, well I have no idea how you would go about that. Perhaps there are groups online that you can talk to people who had the same deal as you, but being a guy I wouldnt know of them off hand.
2006-10-03 20:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your bi?? Its really a phase that most of us women go through...so dont go jumping the gun lol if you dont know for sure. Its natural to actually fantasize about other women although it feels odd.
But anyways,you meet them just as you'd meet a guy ;) Bars,clubs,etc...
2006-10-03 20:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not be bi but bi curious as are most women most women fantasize about women but you could look local bars are clubs for gays and it is really hard to tell if some one is in to you so us ally ill wait for some to come up to me but some times people are just like you but if you go to a gay club or bar than they all should be gay maybe not sure lol and tell them up front ur not to sure if you are or not so they know were u are coming from hope this could kinda help you if not i ma sorry
2006-10-03 20:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by hot_temptrist420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi doesn't exist you are either straight or gay. First break up with the guy until you figure yourself out it isn't fair to him.. I'm not being mean you really need to decide what you want to do with your life. Good Luck!!!You meet guy women the same places you meet men.
2006-10-03 20:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the money, sign up for a gay and lesbian cruise. There will be plenty of people to meet. But be sure to immediately break up with your fiance and allow him the dignity of moving on.
2006-10-03 20:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I don't think your bi you are curious.Have you did anything with a girl.Well i thought I was too cause i would always want and desire a girl too,but when the opportunity came i realized that i really was not and she looked really good.
2006-10-03 20:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by L42RAMI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some of those adult freind finder websites and list yourself and bi and try to meet some girls off of there and then you will for sure see if you are bi or not.
2006-10-03 20:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Dustin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you do is go where alot of people are and see if you find someone to talk to and you know explain to them maybe you might just find one just by talking to new people every day I am a lesbian myself I remember those days
2006-10-03 20:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Craig's List (www.craigslist.com) if they have one in your area. Make sure you are honest with your finance and don't get married (it's forever) unless you are confident it can and will last forever. Also depending where you live, you might be able to find gay bars to try to see if your fantasies are anything more. Good luck!
2006-10-03 20:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by LBM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋