I know this is going to sound really corny, but what are some good conversation starters? There's this guy I really like and I don't know what to talk to him about, I don't know a good way to start a conversation! We know each other, but I still don't know what to talk about. He likes to drive, has a lil' sister he goes to pick up everyday after school, popular, sweet, really funny and likes to joke, and hot. Once we start to talk the conversation only last for a few min. then it's back to square one!!!! He gets really shy around me, he told my bf that he don't know what to say to me, that he's to shy to just come up to me and start a conversation!!!!HELP, pleaz, and only SERIOUS answers! Thanks :)
2006-10-03 13:15:04 · 11 answers · asked by Cutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By BF I mean Best Friend, lol
2006-10-03 13:24:40 · update #1
ask about his sister, since he likes to drive talk about cars find out his favorite and take it from there.
2006-10-03 13:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by dark rockchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly (OK, not EXACTLY, but close enough) how you feel. It took me a while to figure out the answer to that too.
I know this sounds like the most obvious thing, but you could ask him how he is or something along those lines. Be sympathetic. He's shy around you, so find a subject you know he likes, for example, if he plays a sport (especially effective right before or after a game). Just sort of lead up to it. It's always hard at first. Try to make him feel comfortable, especially if you're feeling nervous yourself. I would also suggest taking a measured breath before going up to talk if you're nervous. Good luck!
2006-10-03 13:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Squeaky 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask him about something he has hopes or dreams about...like what he wants to be? Or mention that he seems so good at xxxx , would he want to do something with that as a career? Get him talking about himself and his hopes and dreams..it gets him talking about something he is passionate about and he will remember YOU give him that good feeling when you talk to him.
You can keep the questions going about what he is talking about. Do you know anyone else that does that? Where would you go to school for that? Have you always wanted to do that? What doyou like the best about doing that?
Ask him what he thinks you would be good at?
2006-10-03 13:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what his favorite music is. Or ask him how his day was. Even if you don't care its a conversation starter. I always care though. Ha ha.
2006-10-03 13:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bellatrix/Jimmypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about sports, music,life, love and what he looks for in a girl or something.
2006-10-03 13:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey
i had the same problem. i really, really liked this guy. And i started to get hard for me to talk to him. but don't ask to many questions because that just annoys them. but tell him something that happened them start a conversation. if this works please e-mail me. brownisweetp@yahoo.com
2006-10-03 13:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by P. D 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
try things like
what's going on around you
make a joke or 2
get his attention.... then talk about whatever, get to know each other better
and DONT go for him if u have a BF
2006-10-03 13:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by Nick723 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself, ask him the usual questions, like how ya been? what ya doing this weekend? music and movie topics are good also.
2006-10-03 13:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about a horrible teacher, or his clothes, or music, or somethign that happened to a friend....
2006-10-03 13:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Is your kin from this section initially?" "what are you reading presently?" "Does each man or woman on your kin have (case in factor) curly hair like yours?" "Do you've any pets?" "what's your favourite band?"
2016-11-26 01:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by mccrory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋