Back in July I just bought my first house, my boyfriend of one year moved in with me. I though it was going to be great but it really did a number on the relationship all of a sudden I am not attracted to him anymore and have no interest in him at all. I have never lived alone and now am about to tell my boyfriend to pack up and move out because I am just not intersted in him anymore, but what is the nicest way to do it?
2006-10-03 12:51:49 · 18 answers · asked by Mel P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow....cold blooded
2006-10-03 12:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by Hank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, just tell him you are ready for a change. You don't feel the same about him and you want to live alone for a while.
You never really grow up until you live on your own and have the responsibility of taking care of a home by yourself. You will be able to go out when you want and do what you want. You need to learn how to manage your free time and money.
Once you are comfortable with yourself and being single you can think about getting into a relationship.
2006-10-03 12:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you must have a good reason for going off of him so you shouldn't feel bad for changing your mind about things. Honesty is always the best and the sooner the better. Just go easy on him. Heartbreak happens to everyone at least once in a lifetime and time heals all wounds. Good luck with it!
2006-10-03 12:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by bastien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, most definatly, don't start with an arguement. have a sit down chat and be nice about it, just let him know you like him, but not in that way anymore and you think it's best if he was to move out. provide him a little time though to pack, just don't open the door and give him the boot. cpl days or so.
2006-10-03 12:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon. If your feelings have changed you'll hurt him more by not telling him. sometimes we need our space, who knows what the future will bring? You may come together again, or not. The most important thing is that your happy. Our lives are sooo short. Don't waste time. Tell him honestly that your feelings have changed. (No weak cliches please) Honest will hurt him, but not as much as not knowing. He'll feel like a fool, and you'll feel like a *itch. Good Luck and congratulations on the house.
2006-10-03 12:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by emmygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already being nice. YOu haven't said any bad word about him. Just sit down with him and said you need to have a serious talk . Tell him about how you feel. Honesty is the key to the solution. I hope things will work out for you!
2006-10-03 12:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Your Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him: Look I don't see this relationship working out. It was fine when we weren't living together, but now that you are living here my feeling for you have changed. I still have love for you but I don't see this going anywhere. I want to be able to be happy in this relationship. It's not you it's me. I thought that I would be able to handle this but I cant.......you know somewhat like that.
2006-10-03 12:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but before I think we should take our relationship a step up by moving in together but now so many things happen and we aren't the way we are before... I think we should take things slow and meaning you to move out...
2006-10-03 12:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to be a cold idea,just abandon someone that loves you.What about his efforts to the relationship. Has it all been for nothing?
2006-10-03 12:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth and say you are just not ready for this step you have taken into your relationship and you just want to be friends.
2006-10-03 12:54:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋