My question today, is what is the best way in realizing that there is no other person for you, not only because of the great possibility of being screwed over (I believe 55% of the nations newly wed and divorced are saying the same thing) but because you don't want another relationship, ever.
2006-10-03 12:44:09 · 10 answers · asked by D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Btw, rather than waste everyone’s time by listing the over 100 reasons I have why relationships are a huge waste of time, money, patients, and hope...I would like to say, No I don't want your suggestions on "finding someone", the question is what is the best way of giving up hope.
2006-10-03 12:46:25 · update #1
Hey lucky, ask the people that are dying of HIV if they feel the same way you do, lol
2006-10-03 12:47:25 · update #2
say; I GIVE UP !!!!!!!
You did it! Don't be a sour puss. You'll like the idea again some day. Do what you do til then. Work, sports, read, etc.
2006-10-03 12:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Baby girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The other people answering seem to disagree with you, but I don't. I already gave up hope on relationships long ago. The way I do it is look at what happens to other people in relationships and feel happy that I don't have to endure the same thing. It works great. And by the way, giving up relationships is not the same as staying away from people or life or the world. Additionally, I do have a cat. She helps a lot.
2006-10-03 19:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by robertspraguejr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to work early, stay very late. Don't go out, don't meet new people, save your money and go on vacation alone. Watch TV or read a book for relaxation. Disconnect your phone. Don't go to any restaurants where you would have to relate with other people, just get food at drive thru windows. Walk alone. Accept loneliness. Get a dog if you want a friend, or a cat, or a lizard.
2006-10-03 19:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by jxt299 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the beach, build a sand castle, wait...maybe you could talk someone into putting a bunch of sand on top of you while you look on and you could be this really neat sand sculpture...but first you reallly have to dig a big hole right next to you so well you have something to hope for. Now all you have to do is wait for the tide to come in and well you'll have a hole full. I hope that answers your question.
2006-10-03 20:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sandelf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to give up and withdraw into your own little cave.
However, someday you'll meet that one woman who brings you back in to the world.
2006-10-03 19:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know, giving up on anything is not something i've ever did. just stop coming outside your house. become a recluse.
2006-10-03 19:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you git so tired from hitting some one so much
2006-10-04 22:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by JSTEW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get drunk and act stupid for a day or two. then make a decision on it
2006-10-03 19:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by trainingday5351 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's doing what you're doing, using facts to mask your fear. coward.
2006-10-03 19:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by LuckyS7evin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you already have.
2006-10-04 07:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by Thundercat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋