my lady friend has a problem with gagging when she goes down there. how can she prevent that from happening?
2006-10-03 12:25:16 · 22 answers · asked by sinned 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she might be doing that b/c she goes too deep...tell her to ease up some...the hman throat is only about 3-4 inches deep....think of it as a lollipop....
2006-10-03 12:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok it happens right? Let her know that sucking is not the only way to do this. She should use her hand(s) that way if you are to big and long, she won't have to "deep throat" it. Licking and kissing when she goes down is a good way to go as well. Also relax. If she's nervous or uncomfortable she'll gag more. If she doesn't want you to finish in her mouth, promise her you'll pull out. And do it! She'll relax, and you'll enjoy it more too!!!
2006-10-03 12:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by emmygirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is either taking to much in or she just can't deal with the idea. Take your time and use your tongue alot if your having a problem with your gag reflex. The idea is for her to enjoy it as much as you do. Maybe some chocolate or whip cream will do the trick. And for you "guy" don't grab her hair, ears or the back of her head...not until she's more comfortable and wants it that way. Good Luck and Great Sex!
2006-10-03 12:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by poodlemama1965 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On her own time she needs to practice with a cucumber or a banana #1 to make sure it's not your penis that's causing her to gag, but it's her throat because even though she is trying to please you it does not mean she is comfortable with going down on you. #2 With the practice she needs to learn how to relax her throat muscles because only one or two things will happen she will wither keep gagging or she will bite you. Good luck.
2006-10-03 12:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she gets to the point of gagging, tell her to swallow, that will allow her to get a little more down. she can continue to "swallow" until she gets it all down or until she has had enough. But it will take sometime before it can be done with ease. But I am sure you won't mind her practicing on you. Go have fun, practice makes perfect.
2006-10-03 12:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette6183 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant practice and then it wont happen. its just gag reflexes. if it goes to far, it will always happen. there are other ways to do it that will feel just as good and she wont gag. just tell her to get a cosmo magazine for tips or something, lol.
2006-10-03 12:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by jane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes taking to much in to deep at one time tell her to go slow and ease her way down as far as she can go without gagging and stay there and perform from that part up ward until she becomes more comfortable.
2006-10-03 12:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by mf mf mf mf mf fmf mf mfmfmfmfmf 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell relax her throat muscles and she won't gag and work slowly don't take too much she can't handle
2006-10-03 12:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by blaquensexi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure to tell the guy to wash properly right before and tell her to think of something else or not focus on the fact that she's got that there...and ease up on how deep she goes.
2006-10-03 12:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Sea -N-Sun 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to relax and not try to take in too much at a time and of course practice make perfect.
2006-10-03 12:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by miss 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋