and i find it difficult to talk to girls when im having a low mood, my girl friend on my messenger list asked me to go on messenger and speak, but im stuck for words and to self absorbed in myself and my low mood to speak...ive known hur for a year and have really got a good relashionship goin....however she doesnt really no the deal with my situation and my mental health...i dont want to lose hur she lives in can ada an me the uk im 29 and male, shes 20
2006-10-03 12:20:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
mental health issues can make it hard to be in a relationship... i have two failed marriages to prove it.... but the right person will love you for who you are mental illness and all.....
i have been with my current husband for over 6 years now and we are happy together......
2006-10-03 12:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to always be honest. You need to tell her your situation and let her know you have issues and its difficult for you to have or hold a conversation with her. If she really likes you then she will be willing to listen to you and stick by your side until you get yourself under control.
2006-10-03 19:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by ddd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...then let her do the talking if you are at a loss for words..or just give her the old standby....I'm not feeling well doll, but if you do the talking i will happily read what you have to say...:"
2006-10-04 17:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol is the answer to all of lifes probs didnt you know that? so get off the net and go get some beer drink some then talk to your gf & all will be well
2006-10-03 19:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
everyones there every once in a while. just talk . talk about commercials, school, music whatever ramball. make her feel needed and special
2006-10-03 19:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by yeah its you and me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell her about your problems. If she is a true friend, she will understand. Honesty is the key. :)
2006-10-03 19:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by kingdom_advancer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋