ok here's my problem! im with this guy its been 6 months and today we had like an argument on the phone he pissed me off and the tone of my voice just got a lil louder. He put the phone on hold instead of talking to me i hung up coz i thought there was a prob with the phone, and called back but he just didnt pick up and ignored me! i think thats very rude and disrespectful, what you guys think about that??? please give me advice ! thanx
2006-10-03 12:06:51 · 15 answers · asked by hellokitty24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I see no reason to talk to ANYBOCY who is yelliing at me on the phone. You need to go over and apologize for yelling at him and then calmly discuss your problem.
Good luck!
2006-10-03 12:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things cool off. Unless the arguement was relationship threatening then just let it go. The worst thing to do is raise your voice, and hang up the phone. He's still being rude, but you both are angry right now. Everything will come together eventually.
2006-10-03 12:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by yankeegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we guys hate to talk about the phone for long, and hate even more to discuss tough subjects on the phone, especially relationships. and if the girl / woman can't be stopped, i'm afraid some of us just feel so lost, that we hang up / don't listen / don't anwer the phone.
i know that girls can spend hours chatting on the phone about everything and anything, including the most intimate and toughest subjects - but guys are not like that at all!
what works better is face to face talk, at least as far as i'm concerned.
as for the fight itself, it's funny because you don't seem to be upset about the fight at all, only about the fact that your bf didn't want to listen to all of your screaming. so i guess that it must not be too serious?
good luck
2006-10-03 12:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by AntoineBachmann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u just had an argument its normal . however though it is not normal for him to be rude, u should talk to him about that and tell him how u feel about the argument and what u want to do about it like him apologising for putting u onhold and u raising ur voice and u both working it out.
2006-10-03 12:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well he might have thought u hung up on him. look in every relationship ther eis going to be a fight and this is urs. go talk to him dont just give up.
2006-10-03 12:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had guys do that to me all the time. dont keep calling him thats what he wants! hes laughing at you!! dont call and make him jealous some how. trust me it works!
2006-10-03 12:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by sexy sasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh most relationship are always going to involve arguements so just give him time to rethink things over then hell be ok
2006-10-03 12:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by MUSTANG SALEEN 281 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him some time to cool off. he'll call u back. if he doesn't, try sending him a txt msg.
2006-10-03 12:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drive to where hes at... whether its his house, or anywhere you know you can find him and there is no way he's not going to talk to you then!
2006-10-03 12:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by precious1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Yelled at him--- give him a chance to cool off.
2006-10-03 12:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋