I broke up with my girlfriend today via text message because I dont really believe what she says and dont want to see the fake tears... anyway,,,,,, I told her I love her, but cannot trust an immediate relationship. I did ask for space 2 weeks ago. Her response was "What?" followed by "Love you, too. Bye." 4 hours later. I havent responded to either text since. I feel as though it's someone else in the picture and when I asked for space, she really became progessively distant (like it slowly coming to a halt).... not something I expected especially if she was smothering just 1 week prior. That was too sudden of a mood shift without cause if you ask me......
I do care about her, but the stories and times and facts are not adding up at all. It's over and I don't want to look back, but I just feel in my gut that she was using me for something and now I feel like I have been dumped...... Any advice or suggestions?
2006-10-03 11:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by yadedyah_dc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, you broke up with this girl because of the way that she made you felt. Then she turns around and acts completely the opposite way. Sounds like she has done this before. My advice to you is to ask yourself what you really look for in a girl. I am sure that list does not include clingy, full of attitude, unable to communicate openly, and immature. This girl sounds like she is all of these things. The reason you feel rejected is because she accepeted your break up without a fight. I know this is a bit of a sting, but honestly, is she really worth the drama? Trust me, a girl who is right for you would at least be a little more upset and want to speak with you before accepting the break up. P.S. Here is a little advice for when you do find that perfectly amazing woman: DON'T EVER SEND VITAL MESSAGES IN A TEXT MESSAGE!! Lol. Girls hate that stuff. Be a man and say what you have to say face to face. Maybe if you could have seen this girls' reaction, you wouldn't be so bothered by her snotty reply.
2006-10-03 12:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by cinarella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to think in a straight line. Using your own words, let's review:
I broke up with my girlfriend
I dont really believe what she says
I cannot trust an immediate relationship
I feel as though it's someone else in the picture
she was smothering just 1 week prior
the stories and times and facts are not adding up
It's over
I don't want to look back
I just feel in my gut that she was using me
Okay, so what's your problem?????????
2006-10-03 12:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never know the truth, if it's over. So I think you should call it a lesson learned. If you're really over her even if you still care about her, what else can you do? And if she lied to you that's a major downfall for a relationship. If you thought it was serious between the two of you and she moves on really quick, then you will probably have your ? answered about someone else in the picture. If there was someone else and she dumped you then she or the other guy rather did you a favor. Instead of letting it upset you, if you run into them and anything is said, simply tell him you want to thank him for taking her off of your hands.
2006-10-03 12:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That doesnt sound like a virgo in any admire. It would simply be the guys and females you appreciate due to the fact that i know many virgos and they are very docile. They're laid once more not physically abusive. Most virgos arent constructed so difficult both they are tall most often lol and they are slightly of picky, sarcastic however not verbally abusive. And all people will get mad in most cases, your peers simply take it to an additional degree and no offense nevertheless it looks like they wish support if they're bodily abusive. And u being a libra you're correct, u wont notice them lol. Libras prefer quickly earlier than anything. They dont examine the entire hints like a virgo does so that they may not get alongside all that well too. No offense. It depends upon delivery charts and u've checked they're majority virgo....What approximately their mars sign? Cuz if its virgo then they wont be abusive in any of the enjoy, they would be the opposite! Virgos are most likely candy hearts with OCD =].
2016-08-29 08:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to her or text her anymore. You will need some time to get over her, though, so spend it hanging out with your buddies and family. Going to the gym and exercising also has a positive mental effect and is a good diversion.
2006-10-03 12:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer is that you just need to move on. This relationship was not going to last.
2006-10-03 12:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you someone else. someone who isnt playing games and someone whos sweet nice caring. there are too many girls in the world!! start swimming for your mermaid dude!
2006-10-03 12:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by sexy sasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have it both ways. After all, you did break up with her. Do you expect her to fall apart? You need to grow up.
2006-10-03 12:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone, if she used you, take it as a lesson learned and don't do it again!
Move on!
2006-10-03 12:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by precious1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋