Need some comforting and some advice to get through this sickly thing!!!?

Question

Okay heres the deal... My mom has beed recently diognosed with ms (multiple sclerosis) i mean she doesnt have it bad but there is still a lot of changes. my mom is staying home from work a lot because the shots she takes sometimes make her sick and all the medical bills money is a little hard to handle and that isnt even the worst of it a little after my mom was diognosed with ms my friend will was diognosed with cancer!! i need some advice to get through this hard time of my life...

Answer 1

You need to learn about natural nutrition, for both your mum, and your friend.
Get them both on to a vegetarian diet, with no processed foods, and lots of fruit and green leaved vegetables, preferably organic.
Then search through various sites for alternative natural treatments.
Shots and surgery never provide an answer.

Here's a few pages from my web site to give you some idea.
Read the cancer one first, because ut sets the scene of a big learning curve for you.

Cancer
http://dgwa1.fortunecity.com/body/cancer.html

Have you already gone through the full kidney and colon cleansing processes?

Kidney cleanse is any procedure that involves drinking a huge amount of liquid, and taking care what you are eating. Just a better diet with more water can be enough! But, also any form of bowel cleansing will also help kidneys! The Master Cleanse Lemonade Diet is also a Kidney cleanse, juice fasting is also a kidney cleanse, and any other form of fasting that incorporates a lot of liquids, will in the same time clean a kidney. Do you need special herbs? Only if you have acute lower back pain, clear symptom of Kidney stones (sharp glass like crystals, made of phosphoric acid, or sometimes may include other acids). In special occasions, you can get a kidney stone crystallized in less then a few days !!! To melt a stone/stones, you may need a few weeks, or one day with the Watermelon Cleanse.

Recipes for Kidney Cleanse:
Herbal Kidney Clease
Watermelon Cleanse
Water Cure
More on kidney cleanse herbs

Herbal Kidney Cleanse Designed by Dr. Hulda Clark from her book "The Cure for All Disease", explains in detail how to cleanse the kidneys, and her cleansing program will get rid of most if not all the stones, WITHOUT surgery.
Ingredients:

1/2 cup dried Hydrangea root
1/2 cup Gravel root
1/2 cup Marshmallow root
4 bunches of fresh parsley
Goldenrod tincture (leave this out of the recipe if you are allergic to it)
Ginger Capsules
Uva Ursi capsules
Vegetable glycerine
Vitamin B6 250mg
Magnesium oxide 300mg or 1/4 cup Green Drink Beverage

Measure ¼ cup of each root and set them to soak, Together in 10 cups of cold tap water, using a non-metal container and a non-metal lid (a dinner plate will do). After four hours (or over night), bring liquid with soaked herbs to a boil and simmer for 20 minutes. Drink a ¼ cup as soon as it is cool enough. Pour the rest in through a bamboo or plastic strainer into a sterile pint jar (glass) and several freezable containers. Refrigerate the glass jar.
Find fresh parsley at a grocery store that does not spray its produce (ask the owner). Boil the fresh parsley, after rinsing, in 1 quart of water for 3 minutes. Strain out the liquid, then drink ¼ cup when cool enough. Refrigerate a pint and freeze 1 pint. Put the cooked parsley in your compost bucket.
Dose: each morning, pour together ¾ cup of the root mixture and ½ cup parsley water, filling a large mug. Add 20 drops of goldenrod tincture and 1 tbs. of glycerin.

Drink this mixture in divided doses throughout the day. Keep cold. Do not drink it all at once or you will get a stomach ache and feel pressure in the bladder. If your stomach is very sensitive, start on half this dose.

Save the roots after the first boiling, storing them in the freezer. After 13 days when your supply runs low, boil the same roots a second time, but add only 6 cups water and simmer only 10 minutes. This will last another 8 days, for a total of three weeks. You may cook the roots a third time if you wish, but the recipe gets less potent. If your problem is severe, only cook them twice.
After three weeks, repeat with fresh herbs. You need to do the kidney cleanse for six weeks to get good results, longer for severe problems.

Also take:

Ginger capsules: one with each meal (3/day).
Uva Ursi capsules: one with breakfast and two with supper
Vitamin B6 (250mg): one per day
Magnesium oxide (300mg): one a day

Take these supplements just before your meal to avoid burping.

Some notes on this recipe: this herbal tea, as well as the parsley, can easily spoil. Heat it to boiling every fourth day if it is being stored in the refrigerator; this resterilizes it. If you sterilize it in the morning you may take it to work without refrigerating it (use a glass container).

There are probably dozens of herbs that can dissolve kidney crystals and stones. If you can only find several of those in the recipe, make the recipe anyway; it will just take longer to get results. Remember that vitamin B6 and magnesium taken daily can prevent oxalate stones from forming. But only if you stop drinking regular tea and cocoa. Tea has 15.6 mg oxalate acid per cup. A tall glass of iced tea could give you over 20 mg oxalate acid. Switch to herb teas. Cocoa and chocolate, also, have too much oxalate acid to be used as beverages.

Remember too that phosphate crystals are made when you eat too much phosphate. Phosphate levels are high in meats, breads, cereals, pastas, and carbonated drinks, eat less of these, and increase your milk (2%), fruits and vegetables. Drink at least 2 pints of water per day.

You can dissolve all your kidney stones in 3 weeks, but make new ones in 3 days if you are drinking tea and cocoa and phosphate beverages.
Cleanse your kidneys at least twice a year.

http://www.falconblanco.com/health/cleansing/kidney.html

kidney cleanse
http://www.curezone.com/cleanse/kidney/default.asp
http://www.ehow.com/how_12678_kidney-cleansing-fast.html
http://www.healingdaily.com/colon-kidney-detoxification.htm
http://www.healthfree.com/cleansing_programs_kidney.html

Answer 2

Two pieces of advice. If you believe in God, lean on him. He can't fix the problems but he can give you the strength you need to face them. Second bit of advice is this. Knowledge is power. Learn everything you can about these conditions. That way you know what to expect. You can be better prepared for the challenges that lie ahead and it can help fight the helpless feeling that I'm sure you're all feeling right now. Find some support groups. It can help to be able to talk to others who are going through the same things. Stay strong and good luck to all of you!

Answer 3

Here's my advice: like almost right after my grandma was undergoing chemo for breast cancer, we found out her sister-in-law, my great-aunt had colon cancer. Now that's a bad cancer.
Not only that, but a few others things have gone a little crazy in our family life.
My advice is to ask God for strength and trust to keep your trust in Him. In my opinion, he's pretty much the only easy route out of this. Keep praying and don't give up, ok? God will see you through this. I hope you believe in Him, because this will help you a great deal. Be there for your mom and friend and be strong, ok? You will feel much better after carrying all your burdens to the Lord.
Not trying to scare you anything, but this works! Good luck!

Answer 4

Gracie, I understand that this is a hard time for you. You just have to first relaese any toxic emotions from these siturations you've been plagued with. if you need to let out a big cry then cry but by all means do not hold it in. Then you need to be strong and let your mom and friend know that you are there for them. don't let them get to feeling as if it the end of the world by you dispair, they need you. To lift all of your spirits throw a, "Celebration of You" party just to show them that together you won't let these diseases get the best of you. Times like these make you really see the fagileness of life and how it needs to celebrated everyday. Good Luck Sweetie!

Answer 5

hello Gracie, i work with people who have M.S it comes in all sorts of various severity. if your mum has just been diagnosed she could have many years with little side affects or things can change quickly. the scary thing for those with M.S is the lack of real knowledge. get as much advice from the M.S Society, they have newsletters and updates on treatments and can advise on doctors who deal with M.S patients all the time and can advise you and your mum on exercise programs, food and how to deal with the moods and feelings. the most important thing right now is that the whole family get all the facts together and all understand what M.S is. Then keep active, the more physical( gym,weights,exercise) your mum is in the early stages the longer she will maintain her health and mobility.never give up, you can all still have a fore filling life. my prayers and thoughts to your mum and to all your family

Answer 6

Pray for both of them in all of your spare time as much as you can. I'm so sorry for you mother and your friend I know I might not know much on these hardships even thought my dad was in the hospital but I've never had it happen to two loved ones at once and I can't even start to imagine how you feel I'm sorry for you and you mom and friend I hope they're alright and I'll pray for them.

Answer 7

Do what you can to help around the house, and ask your mom what she may want from you that she isn't comfortable asking for.. Visit websites and support boards to find others like you. Remain loving and generous. You are a great daughter.

Answer 8

Although you obviously need patience, understanding and compassion for your sick loved ones - you need to make sure that you take care of you. Be sure to enjoy your life, get out, do those things that bring you the most joy, for you will need to be as mentally healthy as you can get to be able to support those in need of your love.

Answer 9

all you can do is love them and talk to them read about illnesses to learn about it big up a extra job on the side to help alittle with the money but right now love them and give them support and pray for each of them

Answer 10

I'm sorry for your family and this situation! Please know that God is with you 24/7 and all you have to do is turn to Him for comfort. He loves you and your Mom and none of us know why we have to endure hard times but it is promised that when we are going thru hard times that He is there for us!
Best wishes and I'll pray for you.

Answer 11

if you have a bible please read Revelations 21:4 and Matthew 6:25-34. don't quickly dismiss these scriptures. If you really need help the Bible can definitely help. Trust me! I go through a lot in my life as well as everyone that lives. no one is immune. but these scriptures are very comforting. Please read them.