Ok so I have a girl friend that I have been with for 11 months. And we both love each other. She is off in school down in So. Cal and I am staying home going to school in Nor Cal. I am finding myself having feelings for another girl that has come around. This other girl really likes me. And I am starting to see myslef really liking her too. I love my girl and want to be with her, but I am starting to have feelings for someone else. Should I dump my girl and go with this other girl? Or just stay with my girl and start to distance myself from the other girl?
2006-10-03 11:48:52 · 3 answers · asked by collegeguy88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really care about your girl and want to be with her then distance yourself from the other girl. Remember your partner is trusting you and you are trusting her. Now if after sometime you can't do a long distance relationship. Then you need to tell your girl straight up.
2006-10-03 11:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you thinking? Are you a masochist? Would you even consider starting over when you already have something good going? If you didn't have to work on your relationship with the current gf, then it's probably just a thing anyways. If you did, and you really do care for her, why would you want to go through all that figuring out phase again. The grass always looks greener on the other side, man.
2006-10-03 18:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa guy!!! If you REALLY love your girl like you say you do, you'll realize this is just a passing thing...Perhaps you are confusing loneliness with infatuation for this other girl. You and your girl of 11 months have been apart , and you are still together. Unless there's a valid reason for breaking up with your girl, don"t!!!
2006-10-03 18:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋