I'm not dating a hot girl anymore. In two senses:
1.)I broke up with my attractive girlfriend.
2.)I've decided not to date a hot girl again.
Dating a hot girl is great, since you're constantly thinking about having sex with her, and you get to. It's really fantastic. BUT!! (and this is a big BUT) it comes at a cost. Gather 'round, children.
Girls are like starving jackals when it comes to complements. Complement them on their shoes, and they'll stave off complement starvation for a little bit....but they'll need to feed again. Soon. Hot girls are the fat jackals that get food tossed to them. They go through their day being admired, stared at, and complemented for everything they do from buying a bagel to passing gas ("Dude, that hot girl farted." "AWESOME!") so they begin to define themselves by their hotness. Because they're validated so regularly, hot girls get a self-esteem defined by others, and a sense of entitlement that could match your average NBA player.
2006-10-03 11:44:23 · 10 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not-as-hot girls don't have this problem. They learn to validate themselves through their own self confidence and self worth. A complement here and there is nice, but they are the fit, scavenging complement jackals that can make it through a harsh winter without any "Hey you're hot"'s.
2006-10-03 11:48:32 · update #1
I think to a degree you are right on the money. I am pretty nice to look at I am told. I used to model and dropped out of it to be a mommy and wife. I hope to stay young and pretty but I would much much rather have a sticky, hairy little candy picked off the floor and put in my mouth from my little one, given to me with love and a big fat kiss than a stupid @ss compliment any day, sorry. (you would have had to have been there, lol. I had a candy on the way to my mouth when my then-5 year old dropped it, then proceeded to pick it up, out of the DIRT and LINT covered floor and he wiped it on the front of his shirt, looked at it, deemed it clean, smiled at me, and fed it to me. HOW could I refuse???)
2006-10-03 11:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by cricketwinner@sbcglobal.net 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's stereotypical, but essentially true. Well if girls are "hot" they think they can get any guy they want because of how they look, and if they're "ugly" or "unattractive" they have a good personality because they think they can't get a lot of guys to notice them, so they have to make up for their unattractiveness by being really nice. I personally think if someone is really good looking and a jerk, they then turn ugly because of how they act. And it's funny because I'm a nice person and have been told I am good looking, yet guys like the hot girls with awful personalities as they mostly want to have sex all the time and not a relationship. At least at my age (19). So yea, it sucks in that respect about the stereotype, yet it's incredible how much crap guys put up with if a girl is hot. Girls never like the nice guy, and guys never the nice girl... We finish last :( Well hopefully people will wake up because the hot girls with bad personalities will get ugly or at least old some day and the guys will dump them.
2016-03-27 03:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally
2006-10-03 11:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by linky_blank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you're saying man...
I mean, if a girl spends too much time on themself, of course they're going to want to get some compliments. And the reason why they try to look like that is for...ding ding ding! The men. Since these days no one uses the word "beautiful" anymore, they use "hot" and "sexy", women forget how much make up they have on...
So, I believe that if you find the inner "sexy" girl instead of those shallow girls who are jackals as you called them..? =3
Good luck with that dude.
2006-10-03 11:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by La Reina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you...but I'm guessing you're hanging around girls who are under the age of 25 who don't know themselves very well yet. I'll go a step further and say that you have never dated a hot and intelligent girl who understands people and grasps that their compliments and ego-stroking means absolute sh*t in the grand scheme of things.
Don't sell yourself short by saying you'll never date a hot girl again; just be more picky with your definition of "hot".
2006-10-03 11:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True. But you mustn't have prejudices. I mean, you are probably wright, but sometimes, we girls are so hurt inside, that we use some kinds of masks to hide beneath them... Maybe you could find someone with soul, not only with sense for dept of someone's wallet... We do exist, but we are hard to find...
2006-10-03 11:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right about that, I know from experience but dont let one bad apple destroy the whole bunch. Date another attractive girl if you like because all of us dont act the same.♥
2006-10-03 11:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by hodgesandguy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Speak the truth, brother!
2006-10-03 11:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Susie 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
What exactly is your question?
2006-10-03 11:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all hott girls are like that...
2006-10-03 11:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋