A very shy guy asked me out and i said yes he does not want to make the first move,how should i get him to talk and want to kiss me?he ignores me and barly talks to me i want him to how???
2006-10-03 11:38:30 · 11 answers · asked by queenpaintballing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be a friendly talk show host. Bring him out of his shell and build up his confidence. You could change the guy's life just by making him feel like he is doing well with you.
If it is all too much like pulling teeth move on. He had his chance.
2006-10-03 11:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start talking to her. I know it's hard at first but you need to get to know her before you ask her out. Then ask her to go to a basketball game or something school related and tell her that she can bring a friend. Then sit next to her and talk to her and get to know her more. Then at the end of the night tell her friend that you really like the shy girl. Trust me her friend WILL tell her that you like her. Then you can start maybe eating lunch with them or something but don't totally ignore your friends. Then eventually you can ask her out =]
2016-03-27 03:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he was on here a few minutes ago and it sounds like he's got big plans for you both this weekend. I personally don't agree with the advice, but it's just me.
2006-10-03 11:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate shy guys they want the girl to do all the work and we already have too much responbitility in a realtionship, he makes the !st move... or you should move on to a MAN, someone who is able to tolerate rejection and still be strong.
2006-10-03 11:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try talking about things he likes. Get to know his interests, and he'll get to know yours. You'll find a guy has a lot to say about something that he knows about.
2006-10-03 11:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by Kertcralwer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jessica is a naughty girl....... and probably right. Shy guys need all the help they can get.
2006-10-03 11:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by britinSaxony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're shy around him, so it might make him feel at ease, give him time.
2006-10-03 11:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him you should talk to him about why he is very shy with you.
2006-10-03 11:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by heavyD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time. i'm like that 2. i'm shy until i get to know that person. my friends say i'm like a broken gas gage. some times i'll b open & out going then when someone i don't really know comes i get all quiet. i think he likes you and wants to get 2 know you. that's wut it sounds like 2 me.
good luck!!!
2006-10-03 11:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by walks with goats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont kiss on the first date!!! give it some time. it will make him want it more!!
*winks*
2006-10-03 11:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋