my boyfriend cheated on me (1 night stand) very early into our relationship. he confessed and we dont talk much, our conversations are very short and i we only talk every other day or every 2 days. i saw him last week and he called me the next night a couple of times but after that he stopped calling. when i spoke to him yesterday, he was cold. hes been really cold lately and i dont even know if we are still dating, he never officially said anything that made it clear that we are not dating anymore. i dont know how to confront him about it either, he tends to be moody, and id ont want to say something wrong and have him blow up in my face and end it on the spot. i need advice. how do i talk to him about this? what do i even say? how do i begin to even have a conversation about whether or not we are still dating or what is going on between us?
2006-10-03 11:24:59 · 20 answers · asked by bmwucf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesnt own a phone.
2006-10-04 13:46:29 · update #1
Just move on.
2006-10-03 11:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by An Unhappy Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a real weird situation. IIf you don't know if you are still dating, then you probably aren't. It seemed to turn wrong when he cheated and thats not a good thing. All you can do is talk to him about the situation because he's the only one that knows. it doesn't even seem like a real relationship. If he does blow up in your face, etc...then you know the answer. You should have someone that wants to talk to you at least once a day and wants to talk to you besides a short conversation. After the talk, just walk away and live your life like you do without and be yourself and you'll find someone that'll treat you right.
2006-10-03 11:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's moody and you have to tiptoe around him, why would you WANT to be dating him? In a real relationship, you wouldn't be afraid to talk to your significant other about anything. The fact that he's blowing you off is your ticket. You're not dating anymore, anyone that truly cared about you wouldn't treat you that way. Move on, start going out w/ friends etc. Find someone you can really talk to and not be in fear of things "blowing up in your face". You can do much better than that - pick up your self esteem and realize you're worth more !!
2006-10-03 11:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by earthlove32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question is why would you be with someone who disrespects you like that? and you hardly see eacother and only talk to eachother every few days?????? why are you even with him? you harldy see him, talk to him, he's cheating on you and has probably still been. I would say the relationship is over but maybe he couls just be busy with things and hes stressed out. unless you konw khe's 100% faithful to you (which is hard to really know the truth when your communication with eachother is harldy there>.....) then you can always sit down talk, and work out whatever issues you have with eachother. please just leave the relationship though and when you start to date again make sure each of you and your significnt other are communicating with eachother.! but leave the relationship, you deserve alot better! =) and you know it!
good luck! communication, trust and honesty are the most important things in a relationship.
most people wouldnt even consider you to be in a relationship since you harldy see or tlak to eachother though.... aare you even sure you guys were dating in the first place?
2006-10-03 11:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing u might want to try is ask him out with a group of friends liek a group dat and then confront him about ur problems dont like attack him with it just take slow steps say somthin like u knew this girl that was having the same problem that u were haveing but dont let him no that the convo is really bout u guys and ask him what the guy might be doing and if he decides to go off on u then u can dump him before he dumps you. oh and make sure on your group date there's guys there just in case he gets real crazy
2006-10-03 11:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by gurlplaya11324 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you cant be afraid of how he might react or say to you. Think about it, he wasn't afraid when he had that 1 night stand with some other hood rat. Just be calm and tell him that you've been thinking about your relationship and you want to know where you stand in his life. You want him to know that you are willing to start you relationship with him over and start clean. If he wants to argue with you and give you the run around then you need to move on. At least you know in your heart that you tried in that relationship. I wish you luck and I hope everything works out for you.
2006-10-03 11:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like your about 15yrs. old right then and there you should have decided if you were going to stay with him or not, if you are going to stay with him you cant not talk to him or not call him if hes your man go out and get him make him yours and only yours you call hi and show him your the best thing he will ever have and have him do the same with you. dont let him run your relationship take charge of your love life. because you need act like a grown up to do grown up things
2006-10-03 11:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by bigmj75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions always speak louder than words and he's already not just telling you but actually showing you he's moved on so you should too. Don't waste your time. He cheated on you already why should YOU wait on him to tell you what he wants to do next? Do you really want to be with someone like that? Do what your heart tells you buy I say you go tell him it's over and move on - you deserve better.
2006-10-03 11:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sea -N-Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this a**hole, If you stick around, he'll do it again because he got away with it the first time. If you stay with him you will always be wondering what he's doing when he's not with you, is he with someone when he's not with you, push him aside and move on . I caught more than one Bass in the same lake.
2006-10-03 11:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by shambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH......Do you have to be hit over the head with a hammer to make you realize that "it is OVER"??? What part of this don't you get, sweetie??? You have no relationship. If I were you, I would "officially" just come out and tell him that he is not meeting your needs and you have decided to end the relationship.........period!
2006-10-03 11:29:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋