we been together over a year. we were just handing out at my house. everything was normal i ask when the last time she hug another guy.i ask was it a week ago or a year ago. she says she dont remember. then she got really mad and wanted to go home. on the way home she ask if i wanted to break up with her. did i do something wrong? what do u think it?
2006-10-03 11:24:33 · 16 answers · asked by tim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is probably guilty or thinking that YOU are hugging other girls and that is why, or else, it is simply inmaturity. It is why, we in the mature age group tell those in the in-mature age group, DONT try to have mature relationship, which you are NOT ready for yet... until you GROW UP. You are not ready to deal with what you are feeling and you are not able to even express what youa re feeling and able to understand it, much less even able to TALK about it, CASE IN POINT...
2006-10-03 11:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by cricketwinner@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW. That is extreme. Why did you ask when the last time she hugged another guy anyways? That seems like an odd question, especially if she has guy friends. I can almost bet she totally took that the wrong way or she has something to hide. People get very defensive when they have something to hide. I think it was wrong for you to ask that, but she should not have reacted that way. You need to ask her about it. Communication is key in a relationship.
2006-10-03 18:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't think a relationship will work with her if the two of you can't communicate effectively. It sounds like she may have thought you were being controlling or jealous; but whatever her feelings, she would be better off communicating them to you rather than reacting the way she did.
2006-10-03 18:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by Irish Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u probably did. sorry ur having drama, but from a girl, NEVER EVER EVER ask about another guy, because basically know she probably thinks that you do want to break up with her. she thinks that u think that she's cheating on u and she probably feels really bad because she's not cheating on u. so get up and call her, tell her u feel bad about what happened.
Or just forget about it and find another girl thats less emotional.
JUST SO U COULD UNDERSTAND THE TOP PART....
She thinks that u want to break up with her because u think that she's cheating on u. SO GET UP AND BUY SOME ROSES, GO TO HER HOUSE IN A NICE TUX, AND INVITE HER TO A NICE EXPENSIVE I'M SORRY DINNER. tell her this:
I would never want to break up with u, blah blah blah, i was just curious. please forgive me, i would lose a lot if we broke up.
good luck : )))))))))
2006-10-03 18:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by jaaaaaaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was thinking you thought she was unfaithful or that you think she's flirting with other guys and you might want to break up. She probably didn't mean to get mad, maybe she was just scared about what you were going to say next.
2006-10-03 18:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's just a missunderstanding... She thought that you immplied that she cheated you. When you ask that kind of questions, it usually means that you are trying to find a reason for brake-up. You must explain very good before asking that type of questions. She is just scared of loosing you. And that you might not believe her. Ehhh.... Womens brain.... We are so different from you guys...
2006-10-03 18:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you did anything wrong...mabye you guys just had a misunderstanding, like, when I got into a "fight" with my bf, I pretended to kiss my best friend who's a girl, (It's a long story, but we were watching my guyfriend pretend to kiss his friend, so I did the same...) but her name is Chris (That's what we call her) And he kept asking who I kissed and if we wanted to break up...but I explained and we talked about it...so mabye you should ask her why she got so upset and why it bothered her that you asked that question...
Good luck!
2006-10-03 18:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by La Reina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you ask anyway? You probably shocked her because if she hasn't given you any reason to think she's cheating, she probably doesn't understand why you'd ask. And if she has, she may be worried that you know all about it already. Either way, you guys gotta communicate...Good Luck
2006-10-03 18:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably thought that you were accusing her of cheating on you, which is probably a bad if not soar subject to bring up. A womans past isnt something you go about lightly, you have to be carefull what you bring up.
2006-10-03 18:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by Seraphiel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She maybe took it as a sign of you accusing her of something. It's probably just a misunderstanding. Talk with her about it, apologize if you feel it is warranted.
2006-10-03 18:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋