So um, when it comes to dating, i have no experience. I can't read body language, and i can't tell if a girl likes me unless she screams it in my face, which hasnt happened yet. Heres the situation.
3 different and unrelated girls talk to you over the span of 2 days. You hit it off pretty well with all of them. One is very good looking and quiet. One is ok looking, but has a nice personality. The last one is about the same as the 2nd one, only slightly less ok looking.
You have pretty much the same interests with all 3 of them. They're all nice, and you'd date any of them in a heartbeat. However, theres 3 of them and only 1 of you. How would you go about selecting the best match? And when you do select one, how do you go about doing so without alienating the others and removing all chances of a future relationship with them?
(I am not a player, this is no game, it was just unfortunate that i got to know all of them at the same time)
2006-10-03 11:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by icomeanons 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, I'm currently trying to get to know them all a bit better with just casual umm, meetings, such as shooting pool and the like. But I'm afraid that doing this with all three at the same time is a bit unethical, so I don't really want to keep doing this.
2006-10-03 11:21:52 · update #1
are you sure of what you want in your life?
2006-10-03 11:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by nenena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're not in a relationship with any of them right now, so if they get mad because you're seeing other woman, then you know right off the bat that they're the jealous type and that is not someone you want to be with.
You have the right to date all 3 at this time to get to know them better and base your decision on that. My advice to you is take them out, get to know each one better, and then level things off. Make sure personality is your number one priority because beauty fades as years pass by but character predominantly stays the same.
2006-10-03 11:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not married to any of them right?? so if you want to casually date all three at the same time then thats up to you.
2006-10-03 11:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them know that you are "just friends" for now, and that you are seeing other people. Nothing unethical about it if you are honest and upfront with them.
2006-10-03 11:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play the field while ur still young and hot
2006-10-03 11:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋