How can I get my daughter to stop dating colored boys?

Answer 1

You cant so give up you effort.

Answer 2

children will always want to do what you forbid. I believe all people are still people.....some white people are bad, some black people are bad, some asians are bad....do you see where I am going here? I think generally most people are good, but if your daughter seeks out "bad boys", men who do not respect her, or treat her as the important person she is, why does it matter what color they are? Tell your daughter the color doesn't matter as much as how they regard her in their heart.

Answer 3

No, I am not going to bash you although I do not understand why you would want your daughter to stop dating colored boys as you put it. I guess you prefer your daughter to date your own race. Why I do not know but here is some advice. I too have 2 daughters. As parents, we want the best for our children. We want a man who will love and respect our daughters. A man who will do right by her in every sense of the word. Personally, that man could be BLUE for all I care. As long as he is good to my daughter, as long as he respects her, takes care of her and is loving to her, his race is not important. I want her to be happy. If your daughter is happy with a man of another race, why does that bother you? Is it because you do not like blacks or is it because you do not wish to have a black son in law? Again, that is a question you will have to answer yourself. I'm not here to judge you. The only thing I can tell you is that allow your daughter to make the decision on whom to love not based on a fad or rebellion, but let her date the man she falls in love with regardless or his race or skin color. As for you mom, the color of his skin is not as important as the respect and love he gives your daughter. Do not let biases or pre-concieved notions keep you from accepting other people. However, if there is a good reason why you feel your daughter should not be with ONE specific colored boy, let her know why, but ONE bad person does not ruin the entire race. Good luck mom, I know it is not easy being a parent. God bless

Answer 4

I can't believe this. Before I went steady I dated guys of several nationalities. You should look at the quality of the person. Look at what the person has control of. You should accept, gender, nationality & color as given. If that person is nice, the given's do not matter. If that person is foul mouthed, or violent etc then dump them whatever the nationality or color. I really think you are taking a very narrow view. See past the color!

Answer 5

Unfortunately you won't be able to stop that. I'm not surprised though that you think like that still. this world has numbed me so much that i am not even shocked. it's obvious that God isn't the ruler of this world Satan is. God is an impartial God. Unfortunately you don't have that same quality. you are under satans influence. NOT HIS CONTROL. But his influence and you can't even see that. I do hope though that you wise up and see that God created us all. and nowhere in the bible i don't care how you interpreted it does it tell us to be racists against another race. he is a loving God and if your daughter wants to date colored guys then so be it. reflect your father and show love as well to your daughter and whoever she falls in love with whether they are colored (African American, caucasian, hispanic, chinese etc....

Answer 6

"Colored" that sounds so lame, but I suppose it's better than some of the other names people use. There isn't anything you can do, your daughter is going to date who she likes, sounds like she's strong willed, that's a good thing. If she won't listen to you, she won't be influenced by a guy trying to get her to do something she doesn't want to do. How about leaving her to make her own decisions? You ought to know, that the more you detest it, the more it will make her want to defy you.

Answer 7

Perhaps you can stop her if she is to young to date, and if you as a parent will not allow her to date, that means no dating boy's whether colored black, yellow, green, red, or any other kind of boys!!!!

Answer 8

Don't you know by now that everyone's human and you come off as extremely racist when you ask something like that? Let your daughter date who she wants. she may be doing it because it makes you mad.If you don't get mad about it she may stop. on the other hand, she may really like people of color, and it may make her very happy. Isn't her happiness more important than your bigoted opinions? Are you going to be like those parents that kidnapped their own daughter to force her to get an abortion? People like you just make me mad.

Answer 9

first of all, she probably does it because she know you hate it!! give her some attention and stop being racist!! generally speaking, who a girl dates is all dependent on her father. if they had a bad relationship the try to get people that their father either doesn't like or does not resemble at all!! if they have a good relationship they will look for people like their father!! and who would want to look for someone like you, you racist pig!!!? if you were more open-minded you would have a better relationship with your daughter!!!!!!

Answer 10

Now, why? Like, white boys can't be maniacs? Believe me, Nothing is like it seems to be. Maybe they are just talking, you know, trying to impress someone. You can't influence your daughter's taste. And, if you push her too hard, or nag, or forbid her, she will do totally opposite... Teens...

Answer 11

First of all...they are not colored..they are black, or african american and yes..they can also use our restrooms now. I hope you are able to catch up with the rest of the world soon because you will lose your daughter.