yo listen... i skateboard and all, yet all my friends get the chicks but i'm left at school doing ollies? i mean girls talk to me but it's only when there cutting up. what should i do?
2006-10-03 11:18:48 · 13 answers · asked by 13 year old boy without a gf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude b4 me u need to shut the f up b4 i come over to your house and punch your nuts into your throat, this is my best friend
2006-10-03 13:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by unclechippy_da_chipmunk 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ever seen 40 year old virgin? Conversation idea. Sincere complement. I like your (shirt, pants, back pack, hair color, shoes) Then say why, (color, design, pattern, it's kewl) homework, teacher "Do you have a (brother or sister) here at school?" Siblings. Family, pets, friends, recreation, or if they have a way to earn money, Music. Find a common ground and keep it going. If the conversation dies down move on to the next topic by asking a question. He who asks the questions controls the conversation. Remember their answers and use it to kick off the next few conversations you have with them should you run into them again. Listen to understand, not respond. When they are approaching you and saying hi, and you don't have to go out on a limb to talk to them, its a good sign that they may like you. Thats when you ask them out. Not in front of your buddies or her friends so you both don't feel preasurred. If you are nervious admit it. "I don't normally do this and it might be a shot in the dark," "You seem like the type of girl I would like to get to know better. We should go to (insert activity you both like here) sometime." If you get shot down play it cool and be a good sport. "No problem, may I ask why?" Listen Then address any concerns. They might say no because they don't know you well enough yet. Say no problem it's kewl. if you are not sure how to respond. Don't ignore them after that. You may get another shot later. I hope at least 1 or two things helps. I was the extremly shy girl in school, I can relate.
2006-10-03 18:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sup! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put away the skateboard, and when the girls walk up to talk to you, surprise them with a question. Most girls like talking to guys. The girl has already started a conversation with you when she walks up and makes a comment. For instance; are you going to the game?
You: Yes, Are you?
She:Yes.
You: Who are you going to the game with?
Maybe a lame example, but feed off her comment when she says something to you.
2006-10-03 18:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the board and start taking an interest in the things the girls are interested in - talk to them about their classes. If the only time they see you is on your board, then that's what they think you are interested - just your board.
Frontside Lipsidingly,
RT
2006-10-03 18:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by RT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should definitly try talking to the girls more often. I am 13 and I am a girl. I really start to like guys when they start to talk to me and compliment me and stuff. Just do simple things like carry her books when they look heavy. Even if she doesn't like you another girl might see you do this and start to like you. It is simple just be nice and talk to her.
2006-10-03 18:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by Megan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try looking for a girl that u think is interesting and single then u can go in and start flirting a lil and satrt to know her u can start by saying hi to her everyday and see where things go from there
2006-10-03 18:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by gurlplaya11324 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you cant talk to girls right, well your 13 its alittle to old to have your friends talk for yyou, but i can tell you that follow your heart, try to impress the ladies(giggle)you can do it! you any good at skatebording?alot of girls like that, give it a chance, who know somebody might fall in ⥠with you! but try not to show off to much, it cann trow off your charm
2006-10-03 18:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♪♦♫ ♥♪♦♫ ♥♪♦♫ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same situation big boy, i like this girl but i am afraid to tell her. But how when other girl come by i am very brave enough to speak to them and even tale them how sexy they look and that any one would like to have them as their girlfriend.
2006-10-03 18:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by BABY BOY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are still young you have plenty of time fir girls. there has to be at least one girl that you are close to that you talk to all of the time. if so ask her out.
2006-10-03 18:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask a girl out
2006-10-03 18:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anthony C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋