im very shy i dont know how to ask a girl out.
2006-10-03 11:12:08 · 30 answers · asked by heavyD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well u need to get that courage and ask her out b4 its 2late...cuz u never know what she might say...ok just do this ask her to lunch some day or coffee to get everyting started then to the movies and your good from there...good luck...
p.s dac
2006-10-03 11:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by maddan_360 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you know you love her if you havent even dated her yet?!! Cant love someone you dont know at least that is my phylosiphy I cant speak for anyone else. If you want to get to know her then go ask her out for a date and find out if you love her over a long period of time not on the first date either. If you fall to quickly chances are you are going to end up hurt, and scare her off for good.
2006-10-03 18:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by tiggerluvnmom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you haven't even asked her out yet, do not tell her you love her. You will scare her away.
Find something that you have in common. How do you know her - school, work? Find an open ended question to ask her. (That means not a "yes or no" question, but something that requires her to form a few sentences.)
Have a few things ready to talk about. Don't let the conversation die quickly. If you have a friend that you can trust, try out the conversation with them.
After you've been talking a few minutes, ask her if she'd like to go out for a burger, movie, dinner - whatever you can afford.
2006-10-03 18:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good God NO. Love is a very strong emotion. You don't tell anyone that until you have went out many times and have the feeling in your Heart. You'll know when to say that to a woman.
Just ask her out for a soda or something small. If you're in school, ask her if she wants to go to the Library and study together. Keep it simple.........
2006-10-03 18:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't know, how would i do it, i'm shy too. let's figure this out together. depends what kind of gal she is. wild, smoker, drinker, easy, ask if she wants to go where everyone goes in your town, some night. if she's quiet, reserved, non-smoker, my type as well,ask her to a pastry shop, pick one out first, afterward to a flick.if there is a lake , take a walk, it's fall, it's nice out. open and close doors for her. keep it cool, make her comfortable and say nice things on how you have thought of her, these days...
God bless us all...
2006-10-03 18:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling a girl you love her comes after you ask her out. if there is a new movie playing close to you, tell her you wanted to see it, and ask her if she would like to go with you.
2006-10-03 18:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't know if you actually love someone until you are actually dating someone. Lets just say that you are in like very much with this girl. Boy, just ask her out she only have two options yes or no. don't be afraid.go for it.
2006-10-03 18:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't ask her out and you will be left out it's no use being shy if you want to know you got to tell her about your feelings for her before its too late.good luck don't be shy it's no use shyness will just block you and her she will move on to find someone who is not shy.so good luck and hope you can take her out on a date.
2006-10-03 18:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by mariolla oneill 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I need more info on you. If you are in your teens then i would ask her for her # and get to know her a bit. If your older just ask for a cup of coffee together.
2006-10-03 18:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by Susan N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go up to her talk to her get to know her hang out and after a while if you think that that is what you really want to do then go for it and then just hope for the best.
2006-10-03 18:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by Brittany F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋