You are about to meet your best friends new boyfriend all she tells you is how he's the nicest guy in the world, how he treats her like a queen, respects her more than anybody other man in her life has, she can talk to him about anything and everything, tells you he is the most incredible lover in the world. Now for the question, you arrive while he is making a phone call, he comes to the table, he is very attractive but he is over-weight, he looks nothing like the guys your friend has dated in the past, what is the first impression be about him, about his appearance.
2006-10-03 11:10:58 · 26 answers · asked by John H 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as he treats my friend with the utmost respect, then i have no problem with the way he looks :)
2006-10-03 11:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by you_know_you_want_me6996 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can I tell you something? I am 5'6 and 3/4 of an inch(so almost 5'7 and weigh 155 lbs. I dated a guy who was 6'0 and had 320 lbs. He was a retired pro footballer all right, but 320 lbs. is a lot, right? Nevertheless, I did not look at his size but at his personality, at who he was, what he represented, how he treated me. So when it comes up to women and big guys I would say that most women will not have a huge problem dating the big guy whereas men do have a huge problem to really date a big woman...
2006-10-03 11:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch-yeah thats a toughy, quite if she grow to be a stable chum. I say grow to be because of the fact if she would not know your relationship and comprehend which you're pleased with the female you adore then she isn't possibly a stable chum. She desires to develop up and tutor some know...Its ladies like that who screw up alot of persons's happiness. i might make certain which you do enable your lady be attentive to whats occurring so she would not locate out later and picture you have been attempting to cover something. the biggest to an enduring relationship is honesty and know...stable luck! i be attentive to its not basic...
2016-10-01 21:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first impression would be a shock. But its always good to go for some thing new. I would encourage her to stay with him if shes happy. No matter what he looks like.
2006-10-03 11:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by eranjc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, based on your description, I already have a first impression. If my friend thinks he is all these great things, then weight should not matter. Weight is obviously doesn't matter to her so it shouldn't make a difference to you.
2006-10-03 11:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be happy for her. His weight is not my business. Maybe she realized that the guys she dated before were all wrong for her and now she wants someone who will focus on how hot she is instead of how hot he is.
2006-10-03 11:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by kathy r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
apperance doesn't matter to me ...i wanna know if your gonna hurt her, i wanna know if you are a bad guy in ANY way at all, you know i am concerned onyl for what you can do to her in a bad way or a good way
unless i'm a jealous friend then i can't help yo but you usually can read those people
2006-10-03 11:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of BIG GUYS and they are so nice and bubbly. They tend to be very jolly and really don't give two sh*ts what others think.
2006-10-03 11:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by carrie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't look at appearance's. I have dated "over-weight" people, and they happen to have excellent personalities.
2006-10-03 11:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be glad for her. if hes attractive, and treats her well, then being over-weight doesn't matter. besides, maybe the fact that hes different to all others she has dated is better...maybe this one will treat her right.
good for her.
2006-10-03 11:13:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋