So, I have liked this guy for years and so i ask one of BFF's to ask him out for me.She said she would but she keept putting it off. And here's the thing she hasn't had a boyfriend for a really long time so she has been trying to go out with anyone she thinks she might have a chance with. Just so she would be able to say that she had a boyfriend.
Well, The boy i like gave my his number. And my BFF came over to my house and I called him and we talked for like an hour. Then the next day she tells me that she is in love with the boy i like! And she even asked me to ask him out for her! I had someone else ask him out for her and he said NO. But then she started calling him all the time. He called me and we talked and now we are boyfriend and girlfriend. But my so called BFF is still trying to call him and talk to him all the time. Even though he has told her to stop calling him.
What should I tell her? Should I be friends with her any more?
2006-10-03 11:08:06 · 6 answers · asked by lizzietc11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friend has no respect for you or your friendship with her and you need to tell her to f*** off.
It wasn't until you wanted to go out with the boy that she all of a sudden became interested with him. If she was interested in him before she should've approached him before you. Your right, she is jealous. She's jealous of your happiness and wants you to be miserable along with her. Ever heard the saying, "Misery Loves Company", well that is what she is doing. She wants to try and win that boy over just to make you look like a fool and so that she won't be lonely.
What a selfish friend. I think you need to stop referring to her as BFF and move on. There are plenty of better people out there that you could be friends with. Normally, I say friendship is more important than any guys but she doesn't even care about your happiness or your feelings. A best friend would never do such a thing to her friend and she isn't being a best friend. My god, with a friend like that, you don't even need enemies because only an enemy would act in that manner.
2006-10-03 11:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what she thinks. But you better tell you bf what is going on and that you bff is trying to break you up. see what he says about it. but just keep being with him it;s obvious that he wanted you to begin with or he wouldn't have asked you out.
2006-10-03 18:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would not try to undermine your relationship - she is not much of a friend. I carefully consider whether you want that type of person as a friend.
Disappointingly,
RT
2006-10-03 18:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no more friends with her sh has no respect for you. all your boy friend can do is just start hanging up as soon as he hears her voice. she will quit after enough times. unless he is talking to her. then she will keep calling.
2006-10-03 18:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by xeson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person like that is not a friend.The same type of thing happened to me. My advice is to leave her alone cause it seems like she wont stop till she gets what she wants, and that's YOUR BOYFRIEND.
2006-10-03 18:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Pink_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm jelousy, you want a friend that is going to be jelous and insucure around every turn? its a ligit question answer that and you'll have your answer goodluck
2006-10-03 18:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋