don't you need to love someone before you get in bed with them
2006-10-03 11:07:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. But everyone is different and has different ideas, morals. If that is the way you chose to be, then more power to you. Just dont judge those who dont agree with you.
2006-10-03 11:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's supposed to work that way for all practical purposes in our societys standards. However, most people, especially the younger generations look for LOVE and their SOULMATES way too early in life. They end up settling for someone they think they love and down the road they realize they made a huge mistake, costing them a heart-break, thousands of dollars for a divorce, and kids with a broken home. Look at the statistics of high school or college sweetheart marriages still happily together after 5, 10, 20yrs. ????
Not many of them are still together!!!! There is a very big difference between deeply caring for someone your with and TRUE LOVE.
Next time you think your in love, ask yourself..... if your mate was to have a catistrophic accident and could never take care of themselves and probably could end up in a nursing home being cared for, would you be willing to give up everything you have in life (career, money, friends, outings, etc.) to stay home and take care of this persons everyday needs for the next 20yrs??
If you can't do this then you really haven't found LOVE.
So you don't always have to be in love before getting into bed with someone because everyone needs to have some sex every now and then!!!!!
2006-10-03 11:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse u need to love someone b4 u go into bed with them. U definitely have to know about the persons personality, their background and you have to make sure there is an unconditional bond between the two ofyou, to go into bed with them
2006-10-03 11:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by Shenai M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should if u have any dignity...don't be pressured by what others say...i''m proud i kept with that .....i coulda been pressured by the other girls and I know i'd be ashamed had i. Yes do that
2006-10-03 11:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend time with that someone you love
get to know them
GET MARRIED TO THEM
then you can do whateva from there
2006-10-03 11:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by chocolate luver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋