how do i keep from geting hurt?

Question

i take my relation ships slow and thay always act like thay like me back so when i go to ask them out on a date thay are like i don't lke you

how do i underrstand if thay are leading me on or actully do like me

Answer 1

Here's a hint.

STOP DATING LOSERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

If you never asked them out you don't have a relationship yet.

Just because a girl smiles at you does not mean she wants you, or particularly finds you attractive, she may just be a nice girl who likes to smile rather than look cross all the time.

I think you are leading yourself into believing in relationships that don't exist, you know. Once you go out with a girl and had a few dates with them then you call it a relatiohship.

You may also have a working relationship where the girl is talking nice to you because she has to work with you and there is no reason not to talk to you while at work is there, doesn't mean she is interested in having a personal relationship with you though. Maybe you should read more eh?

Answer 3

Unfortunately, there is no way to keep from getting hurt except taking time to know a person before jumping in a relationship with them. If you both have shared the feelings you have with each other, you then decide what the next step should be. Hopefully it'll work out, still this method is not 100% guaranteed.

Answer 4

sit in your room for the rest of your life and you will not hurt and you will not have to deal with lifes up and down. life if getting hurt and getting over it and learning form it. there is something you are not picking up on when you date. you are seeing more in the relationship then the girl is. and you can tell by the good night kiss if you are want back. keep trying but before you leave the girl at her door ask her right then and there if you can have a second date that way you know up front

Answer 5

Asking someone out will pretty much tell you whether they like you or not. You should not take it personally if they say "no". Asking for a first date is a beginning of a relationship, not the end of it. If you get hurt when they say no to the first date, don't even attempt a relationship; you will not survive unless you develop a thicker skin.

Answer 6

i guess i do not fairly understand. you adore him, yet you do not communicate a lot? How is that accessible? And why might want to you "positioned a wall up" if you're in love with him? would not you want to get to understand him? Love is worth taking the risk that you receives damage. anybody does, its in simple terms some thing that consists of the kit.

Answer 7

You can't it is just part of the dating game. Just take it with a grain of salt and keep trying you just never know when the right person will come along

Answer 8

actually i think that u shuld go straight up to the person nd tell them that u like them nd ask them if they like u too cause that's how u end up luvin a person!!!!see if they accept that they like u then u will know that they aint hanging around coz u r desperate to get a gurlfriend or jus there for knowin that there's sum1 who likes u but u dont like them back

Answer 9

sounds like leading you on...and girls usually only do that for like a back up, but you shouldn't have to settle for that.... so screw them and keep taking things slow, but stop lookin for it too. When a person is not looking it happens

Answer 10

You can't tell, no sure way of knowing when it comes to dating. Sorry, what you can do is watch the body language, it is usually a sure way of knowing if someone is interested in you. Watch how they react to you adn then go from that.

Good Luck!

Answer 11

Take a different ship