Ok, so over the summer i went out with this amazing guy but we had to break up because i live far away. So i still have strong feelings for him. And sometimes i think he does too, but i'm not quite sure. A little help please.
2006-10-03 10:40:12 · 18 answers · asked by ALI 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's far away. It will never work out. Cherish the memory and find another one.
2006-10-03 10:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight forward with him.... You stated you both broke up because of the distant. So I assume you had a great relationship for the summer. So there is nothing wrong with you telling him...... " I understand why we broke up but I just wanted to let you know that I love you not saying that I want us to be together at this precise moment but I want to be honest about my feelings for you. Don't know Whether my feelings will change... but for this moment and at the present... I really love you and in some way if it permitted for us to be together then by all means I'm willing to try to make this work long distance. But if you do not feel the same way It's your lost...At least I was honest with you and you do know the truth about my feelings."
2006-10-03 19:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Prettybrni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "had" to break up because you live far away? It sounds like you already recognize that long-distance relationships are a huge pain to keep alive and thriving.
Write it all down in a letter or blog post, just to get it off your chest, then burn it and get it out of your life. There's no such thing as "THE ONE" - there are several Ones for all of us if we know where to look and don't cling too tightly to unreasonable demands.
2006-10-03 17:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
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2006-10-03 17:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by anna a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys still talk, then tell him how you feel about him. Tell him how great you felt when you two were together. Tell him that's it hard for you to forget him. Tell him that you think you're falling for him. He will either say that he feel strong about you to or say that he just wants to be friends, but I'm sure he has more feels for you than just friendship.
Just tell him how you feel, you will feel better about it when you do!
Good luck! : )
2006-10-03 17:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by CTargrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that if you're far away, internet relationships get boring after a while. It's best to date someone you can actually hug, and hold hands with.
2006-10-03 17:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You THINK he has feelings for you. key word THINK. I know how you feel, this has happened to me too!! And when i finally contacted him he had a girlfriend and didn't even remember me. Find someone else. Thats my advice
2006-10-03 18:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by lizzietc11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to Move on there are plenty of dic*ks on the seas!
2006-10-03 17:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you still in contact with him? If so ask him how hw feels about you just so you know where you stand in his life
2006-10-03 17:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_lil_bitch_28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. He is miles away! At least you don't have to look at him while you do it!
2006-10-03 17:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋