You are walking down the street or in the mall or on the beach or in a park and coming towards you is an incredibly beautiful girl, she has a beautiful face, perfect body, she is a complete knock out, a perfect 10, and walking next to her is a heavy guy, he is good looking but his body is far from perfect, he is over weight, you can tell by looking at them they are a couple. Now for my question or shall I say questions are, what is you first thought regarding them? regarding her? regarding him? I would appreciate complete honesty with your replies.
2006-10-03 10:38:55 · 36 answers · asked by John H 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly that is normal these days,looks aren't everything.It is the inside that counts,the personality,the way he treats you,I think that the guys that don't look so good on the outside care more about you,instead of just thinking about themselves and only wanting sex.My bf is not what I would have went for a few years ago(that was when I just went for looks),but he is an awesome guy,he has a great personality,he cheers me up when I'm down,he makes me laugh,and is always there for me,I would not trade him for any other guy on the planet,and I love him to death.
2006-10-03 10:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy i dated for 3 yrs in high school was like that and i was voted most attractive for my class. It's not always the physical appearance that matters, sometimes girls do look at other things when it comes to a relationship with a guy.
The guy i was with had the most amazing personality and he was so funny. he knew what matter to a woman/girl.
No he wasn't handsome, but as we grew together he became sexy and attractive to me. it's about love to some not lust.
To him i'm sure it started off as just a bragging right, but that helped him get to know me.. we were happy together for a long time and had some of the best time.
2006-10-03 10:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by gardener24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has no bounderies. If they are a couple she loves him unconditionally. Everyone should be so lucky.
I also think you care too much for the physical appearance when the heart of a person is much more important, remember you beauty is only skin deep. We will all grow old one day, remember the song, will you still love me when I'm 64.
And you never know couples are also mother and son, daughter and father, brother and sister, they may all show affection and be thought of as a couple, you never know unless you know them right?
2006-10-03 10:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the girl cares about the guy enough, that she dosen't care what people think. Of course I would be a little surprised, but only a few minutes then I would think that its great to see people out there that don't give a **** what people think, and just love each other for who they are. Those are the relationships that work out at the end.
2006-10-03 10:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to take it is not to make a judgement at all. Romantic chemistry has a lot to do with personality, and you can't tell that until you actually meet the person. Chances are, the overwheight guy is a nice, charming fellow (and that is the assumption I would make) many people without gifts in the physical realm will make up for it by being nice.
2006-10-03 10:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by DonSoze 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would think "damn, he must treat her right." He's obviously providing her with what she needs. But I'm a thinker, so my thoughts would move past that into "maybe she's in the situation I'm in: started dating a not-so hot guy but fell in love with him cuz of the way he makes her feel/treats her, but now, he's not doing such a good job and she's trying to get but he's soo possesive now and knows he's losing the best thing that ever happened to him so he's making it as HARD as possible for her to get the hell out of the relationship." That's what I would think.
2006-10-03 10:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the overweight guy has a really great personality. The girl juts fell for him, and didn't care about looks. Looks isn't the only thing to look at when you're in love.
2006-10-03 10:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At first I would probably think that they do not belong together but then I would probably think that love has nothing to do with looks. If you love someone you only see what is on the inside, not what's on the outside.
2006-10-03 10:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by bluechicken818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a possibility for ya... maybe he was good looking when she met him then she fatten him up with her cooking.... that's what happen with me and my other half. I cook and he eats ... he used to have a 6 pack... now he is almost a keg. But I still love him as much as I did the first day we met. Hope that helps!!!
2006-10-03 10:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly my fist thought would be,"Ha ha ha!, OMG!! look at those two, eww........." Hypocritically though, it would be, "wow opposites do attract, well i guess he has a nice personality". By the way, what do you care? If you're that guy, don't take anything people say personally, its just our human reation to stuff like that.
2006-10-03 10:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋