The man in the relationship never wins the arguement. He has no choice but to give in other wise. The whole thing ether gets flipped around on him or the woman will deny him because she's mad. Why is that?
2006-10-03 10:24:32 · 7 answers · asked by Poetry N Motion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The man ISN'T always wrong. Unfortunately, it's portrayed that way a lot on TV and in movies. When you're in a relationship, it shouldn't be about one person having his or her way all the time. It's 50/50. If I've done (or keep doing) something that irritates my fiancé, he'll have a little chat with me, and it's usually something reasonable that I can stop, or a least not do as much. And I do it out of respect for him. Same with my fiancé because I'm not the nagging type. Many times, when a man can't win an argument, it has to do with the way he reacts to other women b/c many men seem to be completely unaware of their actions...or at least the significance of their actions. When a woman becomes angry, he thinks, "WHAT??? I only glimpsed!!! What's the big deal??!" But to the woman, it's degrading and shows an utter lack of respect for her. The man never thinks she should feel as serious as she does, and THAT'S the reason he will never win THOSE arguments. The best thing to do is apologize, and try haaaaaaard not to lok at other women in her presence, and get it out of your system when you're not with her. Works like a charm. Oh, and to put to rest any other arguments, find out what the real issue is, repeat it to her, apologize and vow never to do it again. You'll be free b/c she will have felt like she was heard.
2006-10-03 10:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't think that is true. Well let me rephrase that, I don't think it should be true. I think there should be a certain level of respect in a relationship for and from each partner.
As a woman, it really annoys me when other women feel as though they need to always be right and always control the men they date. I know that I wouldn't put up with a man trying to control me so why should the standards be different?
Relationships are about give and take and compromise. You have to be willing to share for it to survive.
2006-10-03 17:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by questionanswerer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does the wind blow? Why do politicians lie? Why? Why? Why? Your question is just another one of those that there is no answer to. Even if you are right you are going to be wrong. Give it up and get a hobby where you can talk to yourself.
2006-10-03 17:35:49 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to admit that you are wrong than to go on with needless chatter. In the end she will bring it up six months later anyway.
2006-10-03 18:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by st2545994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While discussing with his woman... he rtruly cant pay attention on the topic being discussed. Trust me its kinda hard.
2006-10-03 17:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by reeperxeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because women are trying to get back at us for what we did to them in the past... its a lost cause.... best way to win a argument, get her to cry, then she wont even want to talk...
2006-10-03 17:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by killimanjaro4ever 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's life buddy.
2006-10-03 17:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by LucyBoop 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋