What is the easiest way to get over someone you still love?

Question

What are some ways to get over a guy whom you've loved and lived with for 3 years? It's been a month a a half now. I left him, but I still love him even though I know he is no good for me. Help.l

Answer 1

there is no easy way to get over it. you just have to do it day by day. try to talk to friends but dont obsess over it read this book by greg berandt. "its called a break up because its broken" really insightful book. i just read it .

Answer 2

You have to give yourself time. People think that the person who leaves a relationship is not affected and that is not true. It takes a very strong person to walk away from something that was once very special. You will always have memories of your relationship. You just need to give yourself time and unfortunately there is no set amount recommended for getting over someone. Your feelings will eventually fade but every now and then something will remind you of him. Just try to keep busy, stay healthy, be with friends and family and know that there is a big ol' world out there with lots of good people to share it with.. You're going to get through this..

Answer 3

This is probably not the answer you are waiting for -- BUT -- time will eventually help. BUT, instead of dwelling on the past, and you know the relationship is over, get out and do things you enjoy with your girlfriends. Make some new friends. Take a vacation to a place you have always wanted to go. Join a new social circle of friends. I know in this position, when you try to feel good, it makes you feel bad -- that is normal -- but you just have to begin doing new, or different things to get your mind adjusted. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 4

the first thing not to do is jump into another relationship. Give yourself time to mend. Go out with friends, get a hobby do something that doesn't involve men for awhile. Join a gym and take your frustrations out there. If he's no good like you say then you did the right thing, I know 3 years is a long time, but in time you will say to yourself: why in the hell did I get myself involved with that guy and the next time you will know better.

Answer 5

Well from my experience i would say to start dating again. Or just keep really busy if you feel it's to soon to date. But u have to keep yourself busy and try to go out have fun. I'm not for sure what he has done so there is only so much i can say. If i had further info i could give further advice, because i sometimes look at myself to be a relationship specialist.

Answer 6

it is of human nature to keep being attached to someone after you separated from that person. There's not that much you can do for now because you just left him. Give it some time talk to new people, try to be around people more often, family friends etc. You will eventually will grow out of it. trust me.

Answer 7

Socializing with new people, that's what I am doing here. I have also opened up a myspace page, (with my same name if you want to check it out). I have really found comfort in talking to people and reading other people's problems. It lets you know that your not alone.

Answer 8

Time and Geography, I mean by geography is stay away from your memories, avoid places you went together
Just go on , the world is full of great guys

Answer 9

baby girl, what you want to do is keep yourself occupy. join a gym, or some type of activities. try not to stay home alone too long. your mind will wonder back to him again. as time goes by, you'll feel better.

Answer 10

You got to keep busy and spend you time looking for a new guy.