I have a dilemma with my girlfriend and the girl I am seeing. The girl I am seeing is a pure Christian girl. She's very devout like I am. We attend the same church and volunteer for the same Christian Conversion group.
Recently, she has asked me to dump my girlfriend who I have been with for a year. She says that because my girlfriend is not Christian she'll drag me down and make my life miserable. Jesus would frown on me for being with a non-Christian.
Lately my girlfriend is acting weird like she's always asking me who I'm with or who I'm talking to. I'm getting pretty annoyed for having to answer to her prying questions.
Should I dump my nosy girlfriend? Should I confront my girlfriend ans ask her why all the questions!?
2006-10-03 10:17:29 · 20 answers · asked by Skyeboi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't both girls to take advantage of my honesty
2006-10-03 10:29:41 · update #1
You have a real conflict of interests, here.
I'd say it looks as if you are enjoying the rivalry between these two girls.
I don't blame your girlfriend for asking lots of questions. She should dump you.
2006-10-03 10:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I'd like to say you are a cheater. If you are a devout christian you wouldn't be playing two girls at the same time. My suggestion is do the girl friend a favor and dump her. Secondly, this is only the beginning of prying questions by the women in your life. If you think the "new" girl will trust you when you have been with her and a girlfriend you are wrong. She will be even more "prying".
The girlfriend probably already suspects you are cheating on her. Even if you are not "dating" this new girl yet, you have already made your mind up that you will-as good as cheating.
2006-10-03 10:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well- your girlfriend is being nosy because she already has a suspicious or feeling like something is going on. Us women have that 6th sense. We can feel it when soemthing is going on. IF you really love your girl and wish to be with her. Do the right thing. Take her to your chruch and introduce her to God. If she realy loves you and is meant to be- God wil bring you together- she will become a Chrsitian. Little by little her worldly ways will go away. It jsut takes time. This girl you're seeing doens't soudn TOO christian to me. IF she really is a believer she would advise you to bring your girl to church but not to break up with her!! Do what's right! take your girl to church. This new girls doesn's sound like a chrstian - she sounds like a littel **** in disguise
2006-10-03 10:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by mari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOURE DUMB. If youre in love wit your gal, then religion doesnt count. The only reason why she is asking you so many questions is maybe because(im guessing) youre spending more time wit the new Virgin Mary girl. Oh yeah, and by the way this new girl doesnt have the right to make your life miserable and i hope youre not afraid of a GIRL. Youre a man, stand up.
2006-10-03 10:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should talk to your girlfriend about this because jeasus as you should know love everyone and wouldnt frown uppon anyone and you girlfriend probably cares about you that is why she is asking you all of these questions. So just talk to her and the other girl and explain the situation.
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2016-04-22 11:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 04:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You MUST be honestwith yourself, your "girlfriend" and girl you are seeing. God already knows so you need to ask HIM how you should handle this. But come on ... One girl and honesty is always the best answer> Trust me,
2006-10-03 10:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by knnykeith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your girlfriend because she is not a Christian???? What is all of that about?
2006-10-03 10:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which is stronger in you- Your affection for the girl, or your religious values? I am not biased one way or the other, but in your religion, you have only one savior, but there are countless girls on the planet.
Pray on it. Don't look to the internet for your answer.
2006-10-03 10:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by Timothy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋