Ladies: What do you find most attractive in a male? help!!?

Question

What do you find most attractive in a guy? why?

I have always tryed to be as Gentlemanly as possible respect women and always be my self especualy around my friends.

But i keep feeling like girls look upon me as a friend a 'nice guy', or they just ignore me compleatly what can i do???

Be honest lol
p.s I wouldn't say i was bad looking no peirce brosmin but not bad lol!!

OH yh i forgot to add that iam also a corpral in the cadet force (basicly a young version of the RAF) Thanks to all you that have answerd this question you have been great help!!!!!!! btw how do you know if some one likes you??

OH yh i forgot to add that iam also a corpral in the cadet force (basicly a young version of the RAF) Thanks to all you that have answerd this question you have been great help!!!!!!! btw how do you know if some one likes you??

OH yh i forgot to add that iam also a corpral in the cadet force (basicly a young version of the RAF) Thanks to all you that have answerd this question you have been great help!!!!!!! btw how do you know if some one likes you??

Answer 1

Let me clue you. The problem isn't you-it is the type of girls you are meeting.

Change the paradigm and date someone that is totally not your type, but just a really nice woman. Watch what happens...

Answer 2

Wow... I cannot even tell you what exactly it is that I look for/at, because it's different each time.

Usually the eyes are the first thing you notice; sometimes it's the strong jaw. Sometimes it can even be the way he is dressed. Usually when I am attracted to a guy, I am not really aware of what it is that makes him so attractive. Sometimes, it is not until I start talking to him that I realize how attractive a man is.

One time I was on a bus, and this man got on, and I did not really think much of him at first. I was sitting across from him for at least ten minutes without noticing him, and then his cell phone rang and he answered it. Something, then, made me look up. There was something about the way he talked that made me thing, "wow, this guy is hot".

....It's a hard question to answer.

Answer 3

Look at what these girls are saying.
They want a guy that is 3 parts nice guy, 4 parts sexual, 2 parts jerkish, and 5 parts confedence (doing and acting the way you do not because others expect it from you, but because you expect it from your self. on top of that doing it in a way that shows no double thought or worry.
example. husband and wife driving. "I think we're lost." wife says. "We are not lost" husband says [but he knows they might be, he doesn't dare tell anyone that he has doubt])

so outta everything you say and do protray confedence, every other thing, be nice, every third thing be sexy, goofy, jerkish (in the sense that you think your the best around), and every 6th thing be indifferent (thats one that wasn't mentioned, its the playing hard to get thing
example: she gives you a kiss on the cheek you act like you don't even notice. not for all girls just those who are cat people. I'll explain later).

at fisrt its hard to keep track of but after awhile it gets easier, and before you know it you'll see a difference.

good luck.

Answer 4

Qualities:
To listen and hear what she is saying
To hug and hold her sometimes without saying a word
To make her feel safe, yet reassure she can look out for herself
Never make her feel second best
To be trusting respectful and yes be a gentleman,
sense of humour....need i go on!

Sensitive and caring, "nice guy" is good, but she needs to know you're man enough to kick sh** out of someone if need be!!!!! ha ha (no wet blankets, well maybe!)
Read the book "Men are from mars, women are from venus" get yourself truly educated.

Looks: for me it's the eyes, they tell you what's really going on in his head!

Answer 5

I think the physical package does play a part...it just does. that being said, however, a big heart, a big smile, a genuine man that cares about others, is a real big draw. Remember 'Beauty and the Beast" ????? It's truly what's inside that comes out, and that's what counts. She's out there, just waiting for you! Good luck. (wouldn't you want a happy relationship with 'your best friend' anyway??) Keep doing what you're doing. It'll pay off.

Answer 6

I'm probably not the best person to answer this question,since I'm only 11,but I'll try my best.
I would want a guy that treats me extremely well. He'd have to be nice,funny,and always be gentlemanly.
I also tend to fall for guys that are cute,but looks really don't matter to me.
All girls are different,and they like different things. Always remember that. And don't judge her by her looks,or try to push her into a relationship.
Hope I helped!

Answer 7

Just you stay as you are my friend, you may not feel special at the moment, but you most certainly are, you are obviously gentleman and always give a lady respect , eventually it will go a long way, the good ones will accept this the bad ones will not.

Answer 8

You sound perfect.Some lucky girl out there is going to think all her Christmas's have come at once when she meets you-the RIGHT girl.Don't worry-she's out there,you just have to be patient.
Pierce Brosnan is gorgeous I must admit,but who knows-he may be awful to live with.Looks aren't everything,sincerity & loyalty are my top 2 signs of a good bloke.
Good luck Alex,keep looking.

Answer 9

I adore men who are confident, intelligent, witty, like to stay up all night "talking", slightly arrogant but in a "I'm just taking the piss out of you" sorta way... stuff like that! Oh and men in suits with blue eyes are exceptionally appealing!

Answer 10

For me the first thing I look at is the eyes, you can tell a lot from someone's eyes. But if you're being yourself then you shouldn't need to change anything cos if that's not enough for the girls you're meeting then thats not you're prob.