I have this friend who I've known for about a month. We're in the same class together and work together alot(we're lab partners). When the class ends, we always walk to our cars together and stuff. When it's time to go our seperate ways, he always says " I'll talk to you later" or " I'll see you later" and the first time we talked, he said: " I'll see you around". I know theres guy code for alot of things, so my question is, are those things I mentioned above guy code for anything other than the obvious?
p.s.
he seems to be single, but I havent asked him yet.
2006-10-03 10:02:00 · 18 answers · asked by lildramagirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it probably means " i wll see you later"
it IS in english
2006-10-03 10:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously he's threatening you. Don't buy into it. I know he's your son, but he's almost eighteen- treat him like a big boy. Tell him that if he's going to be so irritable and ruin your family's life, he will need to find somewhere else to live on his own, not his aunt's house since she wouldn't want him there either. Tell him that you are not moving just to fit his wants and not-needs. Tell him that you love him, you can see that he's struggling with something and that you want him to seek help so that he can live his life again. Offer to take him to the doctor and set him up with a psychologist/psychiatrist. A psychologist will talk to him about his problems (a therapist). A psychiatrist will provide him with a proper diagnosis and prescribe him medication that will make him feel like himself again. It sounds to me like he has been depressed during the past year, but he may have other mental illnesses such as anxiety, anger management, etc. He needs help, but if he isn't willing to get help, there isn't much you can do but stop catering to his moodyness. Mental help is the best thing you can do for him, and the only thing you can do for him.
2016-03-27 03:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is merely punctuating the conversation of the meeting. He has stopped talking and started putting physical distance. That is all. He will say that with his friends. He will say that with his family. He will say that with the grocer or store clerk that he might strike up a conversation with. It is a statement of hope, in one respect, in that he anticipates seeing you (and them) again. But it is also a statement of habit. Whatever his marital status or his intentions to you, that "guy code" is merely the sentence at the end of the last statement of the last paragraph of his conversation with you, but could be more. Watch the eyes, watch the inflection of speech. If it is mechanical, read nothing more. If it softens or mellows as in spoken more gently, then it might be more--but you will have to wait for "later" to see.
2006-10-03 10:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my best friend who is a guy always tells me "Later" when we're ready to go seperate ways and he says that it's because Bye sounds so final and like you're never going to talk or see eachother again. So he would rather say later than say bye.
2006-10-03 10:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by missfinley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being polite. But he is probably a little interested and shy. Why don't u ask him out for a cup of coffee? Then u can find out if he's single well then again maybe not.If you like him why not just ask him if he wants to see you later.
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2006-10-03 10:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of noticed when a guy says "I'll see you later," he actually hopes to see you later... more likely the next day in class. But otherwise, it seriously says, "I'll see you later."
2006-10-03 10:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know about codes but if you start to read all sorts of things into his statements, you are not only asking for trouble it will find you. If you have questions ask him. you are not a mind reader, neither is he
2006-10-03 10:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean anything but "bye." It's just a way of ending a conversation. (Not a guy code.)
2006-10-03 10:04:39 · answer #9 · answered by yahoohoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means exactly what is sounds like, he wants to see you later. See you around means that he is not that into you. Starting to sound promising
2006-10-03 10:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUY CODE!?!! Oh my goodness, why are you reading into it. That's just another way he says goodbye. What is wrong with you?
2006-10-03 10:07:58 · answer #11 · answered by NoPeace4Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋