HELP a CUNFUSED girl?

Question

it seems that when my best friend(that i have a crush on) is single we talk more and he comes over. does this mean he likes me but dosent want to ruin our friendship??

Answer 1

theres two ways you can look at this.

1. hes seesyou as his friend and when he is lonely he is looking for your comfort as a friend, moral support if u may.
unfortunatly its always like that, when your friends meet a person they become tottally into them and u take a back seat, but because you a friend u'll understand and wait till they need you again and of course be there for them.

2. he knows that you like him but you wont come out and tell him so he spends more time with you hoping that you'll tell him cause he probably likes you too, but hes too is not too sure what to do aout it.
i was in the same situation and i told her and she also confessed, and we tried dating for a while and found out quickly that we should just be friends.
friends knowalot more than dates do about eachother thats why friends should just stay friends, cause like everyone has said if you date a friend and it ends badly the friendship is at risk too, so just be careful in what you decide

good luck

Answer 2

That could be the case... But it also could mean that he values your opinion and trusts you because he feels you are easy to talk to... and maybe because HE FEELS you know him well. But think about how well you really know him... Would he really make a good boyfriend for you? Would you make a good girlfriend for him? Is he in and out of relationships? How devoted is he to your friendship and how much is willing to tell you when you're alone? Sometimes people lose that (the friendship) when they "hook-up", because the friendship all of a sudden turns into ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP with rules, commitment, "quality time" issues, etc. Be careful, tactful, and don't try to rush or read anything into it. If he cares for you and can tell you anything, he'll want you to know how he feels.

Make him feel at ease and let him know that you will always be there for him as a friend or otherwise.

Don't try to make it happen - let it happen.

And if you do hook-up and your relationship starts to fall apart, stop it early and let each other know, "Hey, we tried it but we're better as friends."

AND DON'T BE TOO SERIOUS! THAT RUINS A LOT OF RELATIONSHIPS, LOVE, AND FRIENDSHIPS!

Have a good time, have fun, and enjoy the experience no matter what you two decide to do. Love each other - don't tie each other down or become a burden to the other.

Brother DzL (AsP)
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Answer 3

It Sounds like he has more time for you when there is no girlfriend in the picture, not like he has feelings for you. But he might and be afraid to ruin your friendship, like you. Don't rush. If it is more than a crush go for it just be prepared to loose a friend. Sorry the advice is so...useless. Seems like i probably told you what you already know....Good Luck

Answer 4

It depends if he knows that you have a crush on him? also the explanation of him coming over when he is single is only hanging with his friends. I mean isn't that what we all do when we are single? and once we fall in-love or in-like we spend that time with the one. I think you should tell your best -friend if you haven't already. Good Luck because I fell in love with my best-friend yrs ago and guess what we're still in love!

Answer 5

I think the best way to find that out is to ask. Just say, "I've noticed that you come over more often when your single. I have a crush on you, and I would like to know if that means you like me to." Or something like that. Even if your friend doesn't like you that way, he will be flattered.

Answer 6

Not necesarily. Maybe he just talk more and come over because he is alone and need some female company which he finds in you.

In my little experience in dating I have learn to take a guy for his word, in other words if he says yes is "yes" ...not maybe, and if he says no is "no".

You should be carefull not to over estimate the relationship. If you guys have lots of confidence and great communication maybe you should just run the risk and ask him..that if and only if you are really interested in having a relationship with him, if not dont even boder going there..Take Care!

Answer 7

Ask him. Subtly flirt with him more and more and see how he respondes. If he flirts back then he likes you. If not, then he wants to stay your friend. MOST GUYS will not turn down the chance to date the girl they like, friend or not. Some of my best relationships have started out as GREAT friendships. If you're truly friends, the friendship will outlive the dating relationship.

Answer 8

No. It could be that but it could also be that he spends more time with his girlfriend with he is in relationship and therefore less time with you. If you like him you should tell him you have a crush on him but don't want to pressure him or make him feel weird. If you are best friends he will take it will and treat you properly.

Answer 9

Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.

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Answer 10

Well of course he likes you, he's your friend. I think if you like him you should let him know. Then he can decide for himself what he'd like to do about it.
When I was in hi school, I had a huge crush on my best friend Daniel. It wasn't till a lot later that I found out that he had liked me too. We missed a chance to see if we could have worked out. If you don't want to miss out, then talk to him.
Since he already likes you as a best friend, who knows? He could wanna take it further too and not know what to say.