Is there a way I could continue my relationship with my boyfriend? We've been going out for 5 months. Im 21 and living with my mom. he's 28 and living with his uncle. He thinks my mom is overprotective he thinks she is treating me like a little kid. she does sometimes but she's not bad. it's really starting to bug him especially when we hang out. he really thinks i should speak to her about it. she only met him twice. she seems to accept him. i want our relationship to continue for a long time. i really love him. does anyone else have advice or has been in the same situation?
2006-10-03 09:45:20 · 6 answers · asked by Melanie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that if he truly loves you and would want to be with you then he would except your mother and be with you regardless. And if your mom is to over protected then just go to his house or go somewhere else. And also for your mom, you're 21 yrs old. You're a legal adult so she needs to treat you like one and let you do you.
2006-10-03 09:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by ronnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he needs to come by and visit with your mom when you are not there and find out how she feels about things and what her take is on how things are. I do not think she should make your decisions for you, you are 21, but if you and he are going to last, he needs to get to know your mom and she needs to have the chance to know him. As far as she is concerned, she is having to trust this guy she does not know with her baby... She will always be a mother, and he needs to cultivate that relationship if he wants her support...
2006-10-03 16:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't respect the way that your mom is treating you then you need to let him go! He is ot the only man out there. You can have any man you want. But know if you are ok with how your mom treats you then he needs to accept it. When he is gone your mother will be there. Bottom line is if he don't respect her and what she is doing then he will not respect you.
2006-10-03 16:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by mrshedge3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-03 16:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok what's wrong with this picture----he has the nerve to say your mom is overprotective and he's damn near 30 and live with his uncle.honey your mom see's from experience something that u don't and he knows this. a wolf lookin for little red riddin hood.. before real..... until he gets his own space(place) and u are still under her roof she needs to be protective of you,until u decide to move out and bf is supporting u
2006-10-03 16:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend was the exact same when we started dating but we talked about it and got things sorted (that was 9 1/2 years ago) so communication does work.
2006-10-03 16:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋