We have been broken up for a few weeks. I have't had time to go out and find someone new. She also wants to plan a trip to mexico with me this spring. I was in texas last week she called me more than my friends wives called there husbands. Then she says that she misses me and I thought it was becouse i was in texas. She missies us being together. I love her but after she said that she can't be with me becouse she needs to figure somethings out. should i kick her to the curb or take her back.
2006-10-03 09:40:03 · 13 answers · asked by bigmike3323 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We have been broken up for a few weeks. I have't had time to go out and find someone new. She also wants to plan a trip to mexico with me this spring. I was in texas last week she called me more than my friends wives called there husbands. Then she says that she misses me and I thought it was becouse i was in texas. She missies us being together. I love her but after she said that she can't be with me becouse she needs to figure somethings out. should i kick her to the curb or take her back. We have been hanging out a little since we have been broke up. She wants to do all these things that we did when we were together. Should I just ask her out right if she want to be with me.
2006-10-04 03:19:04 · update #1
I think that she wants to be with but doesnt want a relationship
2006-10-09 09:55:33 · update #2
she;s your ex...keep it that way. It's none of her business.... As for the rest. Take a glass and break it.Put it back together...see all those cracks...always gonna be there..move on.
2006-10-03 09:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by cool_chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know there is a reason they are called exes. Tell her no on the trip to mexico cause if you are broken up why would you go to mexico with her. She has issues and you need to stay away from her. I think maybe she is obsessed with you. Be honest tell her you need to figure things out and need time .
2006-10-03 09:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to find out what things she's trying to figure out. I'm sort of in the same position right now with a guy. So we've decided that we aren't going to talk as much because his new girlfriend keeps getting on him about me and us talking after we broke up over a year ago. You need to ask yourself if you see yourself with her or if you want to move on. She may miss you but she may also have someone else on the side and she's trying to figure out who she wants to be with. You may need to separate yourself from her for awhile to. Take your time and don't rush and never settle for anyone less than you want.
2006-10-03 09:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by missfinley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when they say "I need to figure somethings out..." This usually means that they are starting to see someone else and they break up with you so its no considered cheating. They then find out that the other guy isn't what they thought or he didn't want a relationship... so they then come crawling back. Take her back if you want the regular sex, but be on the lookout for someone better... my guess is that she'll do this again.
2006-10-03 09:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How was she when u were with her? It was good that she spoke to you from the heart as opposed to her cheating on you... She did the right thing by opening up and telling you that she needed to figure things out, you should give her another chance! Sounds like she's an honest girl, but that's your choice to make, I applaud her for being honest, now how do you feel about her?
2006-10-03 09:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she still wants to be with you. What you have to determine now, is if she wants to be with you for who you are, or if she wants to be with you because she just wants someone to fill the void. Ask her how she feels, and if she's figured out what she needed to know. The least she can do is be honest with you about it, and then you'll know whether you can take her back or not.
2006-10-03 09:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe yall need time apart to figure things out. Give it a few more weeks.
2006-10-03 09:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by coko823 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo bigmike i dont know man
it depend on how u feel about her
honesty if i was in ur shoes i wouldnt know what to do
cuz my x was the same way she couldnt be with me cuz she needed to sort things out so i left if she was to call me and ask me what up
i will be hesitate but i will feel her out
but part of me will not want too cuz she couldnt make up her mind in the first place
2006-10-03 09:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her back, if you love her. She wasnt sure about ur relationship, you shouldnt punisher cuz she was confused, but its up to you if you still want her and care for her then take her back. If you dont then dont.
2006-10-03 09:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by dream_harts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her to the curb, she probably realized you were the best she every had and now she's stuck with no one...you can do better!
2006-10-03 09:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by sassy2sloppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋