My boyfriend and I have gone out for two years now. I worry if our realtionship will change. He's been working alot and going to shcool in college . I try to do everything I can to help him. Cause I love him and I worry. He's been in alot of stress lately . He trys to speend time with me . But something comes up. I dont want to give him a hard time. But sometimes I just get really hurt that I dont see him. But I dont want to put more strees in him. What can I do to help and help him relax. And please dont be rude . I just want to be a great girlfriend and help. Thanks.
2006-10-03 09:23:54 · 6 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We plan to get married after college. I dont what to lose him.
2006-10-03 09:27:17 · update #1
I'm just feeling down lately and worried sick. I thinking of sweet things I can do for him , but nothing I can think of.
2006-10-03 10:36:07 · update #2
I know exactly what you mean by feeling hurt when you don't get to see him, hun. I'm in the same boat as you. My bf is a workaholic because he's still trying to recover from a recent bankruptcy in business. Sometimes I feel sad that he can't be around to enjoy some of the things that I'd like to do with him, but you know what, as long as I know that he also wishes to be with me, that is enough for now. He is doing his best to mend the situation with his financial problems and the money that he owes his family. If you really want to be a great gf, then stand behind him and support him. Be considerate and understanding. Remember that this is only a process, there IS something wonderful to look forward to at the end of all this! Best of luck to you!
2006-10-03 09:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Angelheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing u can really do but just kinda stay in the background and hope the stress level will come down i do that sometimes not wit boyfriend but a bro he's always stressed has a lot on his mind and so when he comes i just say hey and kinda stay out of the say wit a boyfriend u will feel neglected and hurt but just be there when he needs u i guess!!
2006-10-03 16:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry Blossom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-03 16:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by d d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey,
you've been together for two years, Wow that's great.
Maybe do what you can to help him with his homework.
maybe make his lunch for him to eat at work. THat way he thinks of you when he's eating it.
If you guys' are planning on getting married after college,
then i wouldn't worry about it.
2006-10-03 16:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by the d 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go to his job and give him some great stress reliever.
2006-10-03 16:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try having a study spend time where you spend time with him while he's studying.
2006-10-03 16:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by Rachael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋