How can 2 people who seem to fight all the time make a relationship last?

Question

Is it possible?

Due to some problems we can't see each other at the moment but online and on the phone we fight almost constant..

Answer 1

look at the things you fight about.... I think you both are trying not to let your guard down. You have to accept things about him and he has to accept somethings about you. ---- You both need to take into consideration what the other is thinking. When you say "we fight about everything" is it really about everything? do you both have anything in common you can agree on. What do you like about him, and what does he like about you? You need to tell each other these things so you can start on a road to recovery

Answer 2

I've been doing it for years now. We always tell everyone it's foreplay. Lol! I'm serious. We both have the same attitude problem so it's whoever throws in the towel first. We love each other but are passionate about everything so a normal debate turns out bad. It really never lasts but an hour and usually one of will answer exactly like the other,in a mocking way, which in turn makes one of us laugh. Not kidding! Have you ever seen two ethnic people argue? It's like watching 2 little Italian ladies argue...not pretty. Yes, one of us is Italian and the other German. It can work if not hateful things are said or no physical or emotional abuse occurs. Good luck to ya

Answer 3

Hopefully your relationship will improve. My boyfriend & I go through spurts where we fight a lot but it passes. Times can be tough or maybe one or both of you are going through something stressful right now, & in some ways your taking it out on each other. ya know? so just try to communicate with out yelling or having a bad attitude. And when your significant other says or does something that hints to you he's giving attitude, just bring it to his attention in a super nice way. Just say "Hey, what is the matter, you seem tense" or something like that. Good luck!

Answer 4

Unless you enjoy fighting this relationship sounds like it is not going to make it. Unless you take a step back and look at the root of your fighting. Is it money, stress, work, past relationships, etc. etc. Sounds like you need to take a complete break from each other and figure out what you want in a relationship.

Answer 5

It could be that they both enjoy arguing, or the great make-up sex that comes after. I think it is possible for two people who fight all the time to have a satisfying relationship.
Relationships take a lot of work. One major rule. Don't go to bed angry. Try to find a common ground and compromise...my fiancee and I argue a lot, but we always look back at how stupid the whole thing was, and laugh at our stubborness.

Answer 6

you cant have a good relationship if your fighting all the time find out what your fighting about & ask each other whats bothering you ask questions & solve the problem by not doing the things you do to fignt & then if you keep fighting just let it go because there was never a relatoinship to begin with!!!

Answer 7

If you fight online and on the phone, how in the world will you get along when in the same room?

Answer 8

i think if theres children involved then ya it is pssible,

ive been in a relationship for 9 years, and ingaged for two years with the same guy.

we have 4 children together and our love is unconditional, but things are getting alot better now days, we have a 50 - 50 relationship and been through alot of stuff in the past 9 years

Answer 9

I think when you get to the point in a relationship where all you do it fight I think that is a sign to end it.

Answer 10

Happens all the time. Maybe the 2 of you are missing each other.