I just met a girl who I have lots in common with. She was in a relationship for 2 years and 3 weeks ago they broke up. I have started seeing her, and im being cautious. My concern is what if I start to like her more and I hold back my feelings for fear of being the rebound guy. Will this automatically doom any potential the relationship has to make it out of rebound status or is it better to be more reserved so as to not scare her?
2006-10-03 09:16:41 · 6 answers · asked by ajwpoet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think if she really loved the guy before you there is no way she is ready 2 start a relationship now!! its 2 fast shes just using you 2 help keep her get mind off her ex! because if he came back around there's a huge chance she will be back in that place with him regardless of who broke up with who the feelings don't go away that easy if it was real! just be careful!! don't hold back your feelings but make sure you don't come on 2 strong just let her know you are there for her! don't try 2 compete either! be yourself and don't smother her either give her time and just have fun with her! maybe you will be the right one for her! don't back out unless your gut says she's not on the same level in the relationship.
2006-10-03 09:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by finenazfuk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No need to be reserved. She had 3 weeks and decided to be in a relationship with you.
Do not hold back, just move forward as you would normally and do not consider you to be the rebound guy
2006-10-03 09:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend now. For at least 3 months. Bare minimum. Otherwise, you'll be the rebound guy.
2006-10-03 09:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by quirky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just becuase the relationship ended three weeks ago doesn't mean she's on the rebound.... the rebound period is determined by whenver she gets over it... she could have been over it when they broke up... if she still talks about him or things they did together then she's not over it
2006-10-03 09:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-03 09:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by d d 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no way she is ready for another relationship yet.
2006-10-03 09:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Alissa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋