My ex-lover is back with his ex, who he claims to LOVE soooo much.
But he still calls me alot & visits me!
And still tries to have sex with me,which i refused.
Does he really "LOVE" her that much if he is still all on me?
2006-10-03 09:15:10 · 11 answers · asked by stress77mulah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey. His greatest "love", is for himself. This is a guy, who has 2 women, that let him get away with being an asshole!!! The tables will turn, they ALWAYS do. One day, and hopefully SOON, BOTH of you will have wised up and have nothing to do with him!! He is a user and a manipulator. YOU, and probably her too, think that you're "in love". You aren't. REAL love, does not make you feel used, betrayed, and disrespected!!! Trouble is, when you THINK you're in love, your brain usually shuts down. "Love is blind" is not a saying for no reason!! It's true. Long story short?? DUMP THE BASTARD!!! Respect yourself!! And find a guy worthy of you. This loser will be back..{ they ALWAYS come back} By then I'll bet, you'll wonder what most woman do at this point......" What in the hell was I thinking???". You won't care anymore, and it feels wonderful. This was way too long wasn't it?? Sorry!
2006-10-06 17:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Know this girl...he doesn't love her, no way, cuz he'a a pig! A sumbag, an ***hole! You shouldn't even be wasting your time on this jerk! I'm sure your a beautiful woman, as we all are in different ways, so go out and fine someone who is worthy of your beauty. This guys just looking to get some. At least that is the way it looks to me. I mean, how much could you really mean to him if you 2 are exes, & she VERY OBVIOUSLY means NOTHING WHATSOEVER to him otherwise he wouldn't be trying to get you in the sack. K? think about that!
2006-10-03 09:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-03 09:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by d d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To guys, love is many things...and the main one is sex. If he thinks he can still get some from you and be with his ex, to him it's just " having his cake and eating it too".... he probably figures that you care for him enough to put up with sharing him and will try to push that until you put your foot down and end that contact with him while he's with her.
2006-10-03 09:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by wassup 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you let him visit you, and listen to his calls. You are ex's for a reason. Otherwise, get back with him if you still love him.
2006-10-03 09:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You keep refusing ! He's a player, a user,he wants his cake and eat it too..Tell him to get lost , you deserve better than a user like that..He's out for himself !
2006-10-03 09:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good girl u have self respect i respect u for that !!! let him sleep wit his new girl!!
2006-10-03 09:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry Blossom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, just horny... he will continue to have sex with both of you as long as you both allow him to.
2006-10-03 09:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he only 'LOVES' what he thinks he can get from both of you.
a playa in training!
2006-10-03 09:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by *JC* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he really wants you both at the same time...and in the same bed
2006-10-03 09:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋