im 17 and he's 18 ive been seeing him now 4 9 months i am really in love with him and things r gr8 between us we c alot of each other and i c alot of his parents! i just dont no how 2 tell my parents that im seeing him they have never knowen that i have had boyfriends b4 and that y i think its hard 2 tell them now!!!!! thanx 4 ur support ppl x
2006-10-03 09:13:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You are 17 and next birthday you will be classified as an adult. Your parents will probably be absolutely delighted to know about your boyfriend because they probably suspect that that is the case already, if you really are in love with him! They may be feeling really hurt that you haven't been able to confide in them especially if you have been spending a lot of time away from home and they don't know where you are. Be grown up and talk to them - I'm sure they love you and will be delighted to know you are growing up into a responsible trustworthy daughter. Ask them if you can bring him home to meet them - let them know you are as proud of them as you should be of your boyfriend. Honestly! I speak from experience.
2006-10-03 09:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Purple 8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some parents it's hard to accept that their little girl has grown up and has a boyfriend. Approach the subject by mentioning that you have a boyfriend and that you didn't want to tell them or introduce him until you knew that he was the one for you. Ask them how they would of felt if you had introduced him in the first month or so and he had broken your heart etc. By discussing this with them they will see you as mature and not somebody who makes rash decisions.
2006-10-03 09:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tabbyfur aka patchy puss 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you do tell them tell them in tis order mom dad i have got something important to tell you and then begin say i have had a boyfriend for the last 5 years and so on tell them theresknow way they can change it andhow much you love each oyher tell them its been a secret because of the understanmding issue and proceed with how good youve been for each other and all the great things hes done for you in helping you through school and emotional problems then tell them his name are you gonna marry this boy it feels like your thinking about doing it soon it would be good dont forget about college you both should go and stay fsithfull live life please i didnt
2006-10-03 09:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by DIrtycircus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-01 21:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 17 plenty old enough to have a boy friend, just tell your parents. They may be offended you did not tell them before, so tell them now and say you wanted to be sure it would last before you told them or brought him home. You are old enough to not be worried about this !!!!!!
2006-10-03 09:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are u afraid your parents will kill u? How u both can see each other a lot and your parents d't know? Be happy dear, and leave this non problems apart.
2006-10-03 09:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by neramira 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they are human im sure they will understand!! just sit whichever one your closest to down and tell them youve started dating someone and you really like him and you would like there approval. if they dont like it rebel and see him anyway. they surely did it once upon a time!!! and its caled text lingo not bad grammar. get with the times folks!!!
2006-10-03 09:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by helen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i answered you question be for if you have never told your parents about any of your relationships just tell them about this one they proberbly already know you have had them in the past they were once your age JUST TELL THEM THEY WILL RESPECT YOU MORE FOR DOING IT !!!! GOOD LUCK AN GET ON WITH IT !!!!
2006-10-03 09:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by yorkshire_lad 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
god i wish thats all i had to worry about! Just tell em... they probably think ur shagging already anyway. Parents know!
2006-10-03 09:17:15 · answer #9 · answered by ToniLianne 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have bigger problems on the grammer and spelling front that you should address first.
Too much SMS???
2006-10-03 09:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by slipper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋