Its a stupid question I know. But im confused. Ive been dating a girl for 3.5 years a few months a go we took a break and she ended up sleeping with another guy right after I told her i wnated to get back with her. It burns me up that she ignored me wanting to be back together and then slept with some guy. After she realized she got used she came crawling back to me and I guess i was 2 hurt /weak not to take her back. Months later I find myself doubting our love alot. I care for her more than the world and i only want the best for her, I dont ever want to see her with another guy, she is like family to me but i find myself so angry about her sleeping with that guy that i just want to leave and never see her again. This feeling of hatred comes and goes but is fairly often. I dont know if I really love her or if im just scared to be without her. I hate her so much for what she did to me but at the same time if i ever saw her with another guy id probably flip.....how can i tell
2006-10-03 08:56:58 · 4 answers · asked by 2nice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do love her, you're just really concerned of what she did to you. Also, you are trying to look out for her and only want her to be okay. That's why your upset and all, so try to work things out with her, ask her what happened with her and the guy and try to help her out. She probably went through a lot, and she still seems to love you cause she sees where she went wrong. So you still love her, she still loves you, just calm her down and keep her safe. You're just worried, concerned and looking out for her. Hope that helped.
*Rae*
2006-10-03 09:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by animegirl769z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-03 09:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by d d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are afraid to be without her, since you actually admitted it in your question. You may love her, but you are not "in love" with her, there's a big difference. Also, the way she has treated you, she is definately not in love with you. When you find your true love, you will know because you will have no doubts that she loves you. If you have any doubts then it is not true love. When you find your true love, believe me it's worth the wait.
2006-10-03 09:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by clcmartinez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her to the curb - take time to get over it completely - u will be fine in time - is she really worth it
2006-10-03 09:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋