My man and I have been going out a month and we just do not talking about feelings or us. Usually I find guys tell you how great you are at the beginning and then it tapers off.
I am wondering what in earth is going on with him. I am 34 and have lots of dating experience and am not used to guys that just can't say something nice about me once in awhile...
2006-10-03 08:51:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask - if still nothing - move on
2006-10-03 08:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all not all men are expressive and it all depends on his up-bringing. If he in his up-bringing, was exposed to an expressive father and or step-father then he was taught to express himself, maybe. If not he may be inhibited with his feelings. One month is not that long however no one needs to be taught how to compliment, the eyes will tell you what looks good. Give him some time, maybe another month bring it up and if he can not or will not I think you should keep it moving and if compliments and expression it what you need then keep it moving. Good luck and God bless!!
2006-10-03 09:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by shawtypimp2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is the shy, laid back type when it comes to expressing his feelings. I would continue to just be yourself, and if you think you care about him, and he cares about you then let time be the judge. You don't want to invest alot of time into something that may not go anywhere either, but all the same what if he is the right man, and you misread him. Again, let time be the judge and you will make the right choice.
2006-10-03 08:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy.
some men are very emotional and straight and manly
some arent'....same goes with women
this is a silly immature question
seems more like your choice in men
do you give them compliments
do you need compliments for self esteem ... next time your in an argument bring it up that you miss the compliments.
Your with him right.. so shouldn't it be easier to ask him rather then on yahoo answers.. asumming that your comfortable with one another which you should be
2006-10-03 08:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just talk to him about it because something else could be pulling his attention off of you. At the very worse, he may say that he doesnt want to be with you anymore, but at least you will know.
2006-10-03 08:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by blessedbytheluvofjah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds as if he's a little nervous to say anything or get into those subjects. Don't worry, he'll open up to you sooner or later and if that doesn't work there are other fish in the sea.
2006-10-03 08:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by animegirl769z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In answer to your question--on the first date. Is this man the strong silent type who communicates in grunts and expects you to know by osmosis how he feels? He sounds as if he is the one who zones out and functions in another cosmos.
If it's any consolation, I think you're fabulous!
2006-10-03 08:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is scared to this time. i don't know him but i can say that if he is like me, i don't say nice things that much anymore when i am dating someone new. it is because of alot of pain from the past and that he maybe hurt from previous situations. i'd give him some more time and see how it works but either way, he has been hurt inside and is not showing it to you.
2006-10-03 08:55:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't start sorting this lack of communication out early in the relationship, it will not stand the test of time!
2006-10-03 08:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by chilean_sea_ass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep the relationship going you need to ask him. Comunication is the only thing that makes it last.
2006-10-03 08:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the girl start giving you signs that she is comfortable with how things are going is a good start...pay attention
2006-10-03 08:53:36 · answer #11 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋