I met a guy thru 1 of my friends when we were 16 he was 23 at the time but i barely talked to him. I saw him at a coffee shop and asked bout his son and his gf he told me he was single and that he didnt get to see his son nemore and 2 days later we started to hang out and we went back to my place and watched a movie and told me he liked me and asked me out and did it with him 2 or 3 days after we started dating for the first few weeks we had gotten into arguments and now things are fine, he is asking me if i want to move in with him and has asked me to marry him im 21 soon 22 and he will be 30 next year in april we have been hangin out alot and i have already met his mom...he always tells me im beautiful and asks me if i can eat certain foods since im diabetic and asks if im ok when im not feeling good and asks if he can do anything for me tells me he loves me and wants to be with me...i love him too but sometimes i dont know if he really does love me or not? please help
2006-10-03 08:51:00 · 15 answers · asked by shorty_ma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have had problems with guys who tell me they like me and in the end have just played around on me and mostly have done on line/long distance relationships the guy im with now is the 4th guy i have dated in real life the other 3 were guys that i dated when i was 16 to 18 and has been hard for me to trust guys
2006-10-03 09:01:29 · update #1
This man is treating you like a queen is suppose to be treated, that tells me he loves you. My suggestion to you is to follow your heart. That womans intiution most times never leads us astray, so I say follow it. Good luck.
2006-10-03 09:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Way to early and way to complicated. Keep dating him if you want but don't jump into anything stupid. If he really loves you and he's really a great guy then 2 years down the road you'll still feel this way and in about 5 or 7 years you'll actually be ready to GET married. Take your time, sweetie. There's no rush in life, believe me!
2006-10-03 16:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem I see with this is that you don't even know if he loves you or not. So, why should get married right now if that is the case. I'm not ever worried about the ages between you, but the fact that you DON"T know.
2006-10-03 16:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your instince do you think he loves and wants to be with you. Just because you met his mother does not mean a thing, it's alot of females and males that have meet there partners parents and they are not together. I think your moving a little to fast and just want to be loved, just wait awhile.
2006-10-03 16:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by ebonikaf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too soon for you because it appears that you havent really had any kind of life without him in it. And if you're happy and satisfied, then you wouldnt be asking in the first place. However, the ultimate decision is yours, and yours alone.
2006-10-03 15:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer whether he loves you or not. There must be some things that are going on to make you doubt him this way. He cant be as perfect as you are saying.
BTW, hes trying to win you so dont expect this all-loving attention to be permanent.
2006-10-03 15:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is slow down...that is how a good relationship will last. Give it time that is how you can tell if he is willing to wait a little while to move in. speeding through such important things can be tough on any relationship...don't doom it...take it slow
2006-10-03 15:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by lovelovelyme23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow ur heart because nobody answering these questions knows ur exact situation (i.e how he exactly treats u) so my advice would be to just follow ur heart and if ur not ready yet tell him that and if he truely loves u then he'll understand and if he gets mad and isnt understanding then u know that it isnt the right move to make
2006-10-03 15:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT....IF HE DIDNT HE WOULDNT HAVE ASKED... but if things dont work out take it as a lesson learned to wait longer...
2006-10-03 15:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you marry, live together first. That's when you really get to know each other.
2006-10-03 15:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋