there is this person that we had been messing around with each other but we called it quits. we usually didnt see each other but in the past two weeks, we have partied together and i feel akward n i think he is too. we dont have any problems but what if something happens. i dont want to go through this whole thing again because it hurt me even though we werent exactly goin out. what should i do? pretend like nuthin happened?
2006-10-03 08:47:25 · 7 answers · asked by nativepride15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pretend nothing happened, and really start believing it. Lots of people are capable of little trists here and there without commiting. Those people never carry around luggage from these small affairs however people like you (and me) get hurt. Blow it off, say to yourself they arent the one, and enjoy life in expectation that someday someone really awesome will fall for you!
2006-10-03 08:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it Slow, Not like it never happened but almost like starting over if you don't feel right about this right know it's for a reason. Know how to trust yourself and sometimes you have to listen to your instincts. I call that a red flag so be careful if you don't want to go through it again.
2006-10-03 15:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Joey V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are ya??.. well i think that u shouldnt have to go threw it again i would just try not to be around him if it made me uncomfortable! but if u really like him and u actually want a relationship then see if he is down??!!! if not move on im sure there is someone at those parties for ya .. ur just too busy payin attention to the one ur talkin about!!
2006-10-03 15:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by da1Nonly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you people so insecure that you ask total strangers how you should live your life?
Have you no ideals or direction, or do you meander aimlessly through life as a mere existance rather than a contributing individual.
Please get ahold of yourselves.
2006-10-03 15:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it would help if you both talk about exactly wat it is that makes u both feel akward. if he feels the same way then he probably wants to talk about it to. u guys cant be friends if u guys feel akward around eachother so my advice is to just have a talk about it
2006-10-03 15:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is over with. Just act like nothing bothers you!
2006-10-03 15:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by JaneDivided 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be yourself.
2006-10-03 15:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by my flame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋