I had sex with my boss in the office?

Question

She's and I worked late one night days ago and started talking about relationships. She wanted to know a lot more about me and my present situation. The moment I told her, I wasn't involved with anyone; she asked if I wanted to be. I told her I wasn't sure but then said; ("No", I mean with me.) I didn't know what to say and then she leaned over and kissed me. I accepted the kiss and discided to grope her body while kissing. She then asked me to take her right there so I aggressively bent her over her desk and the rest is history. She called me into her office yesterday and acted as if she needed to go over some work with me with the door locked and dropped to her knees to go down on me. I am loving everyminute of what we're doing because I am highly attracted to her but here is the problem.

She's married with two kids about 6 and 11. Her husband works with us. She's become intensly risky. what do I do?

Answer 1

change the job and continue seeing her or keep your job and stop fussing around NOW.
my good friend had an affair with a girl at work and her beoyfriend works there too and the boyfriend found out about his girlfriend ....ing my good friend... disaster! especially women get careless very easy.

Answer 2

This reply is 100% serious. You need to stop ASAP. Why? The longer the relationship goes on, the greater the divide between her and her husband. The greater the divide between her and her husband, the more the kids will suffer. Put yourself in either of the kid's place. Would you like to be deprived of attention from either parent through no fault of your own? The kids do not deserve to suffer because adults are irresponsible.

You need to have a serious talk with her. Bring a trusted friend along, preferably female. Agree beforehand that if the meeting becomes too emotional, that the meeting will stop (probably by your friend) and re-start when all of you are calm. Your boss needs to find another way of fulfilling that excitement/thrill with her husband. Set yourself goals and communicate those goals to your trusted friend prior to the meeting:
1) end the relationship without acrimony
2) both of you should take the responsibility of breaking the news to her husband
3) all three of you should deal with the situation as adults, reponsible adults
4) the children should not suffer, at all.

You are in a very tough situation. It is likely that you will seek employment elsewhere. Be prepared. Good luck.

Answer 3

Either way, you have screwed yourself. If you try to stop the situation, things will be awkward, and since she is your boss, she could fire you if she is angry at you for ending things. If you continue, sooner or later you will get caught. The fact that her husband works there too is making that even more of a possibility. You've already done the damage, so as long as you work there, you have to worry about her husband finding out what happened. You might as well start looking for a new job now, and hope you don't need to use your boss as a reference.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Think the damage is done but protect yourself.

Get another job sorted or get a transfer to another department asap.

Continue with the relationship if nobody can find out or else
ask her what her intentions are, ie. affair etc or more

if her answer fits in with your plan try and make it work out if you want to.

If you have no long term interest in her you need to let her down slowly so that the less repurcussions the better.

Don't take advantage of the sex, likly fact is if you getting it there you can probably get it elsewheren with far less damage

hope this helps

Answer 6

WOW! You're in a situation here. I guess you have to partially blame yourself because you gave in to the initial temptation, & went there in the 1st place. So, really you have to decide what is more important to you, your morals or your sex drive? Is what you want worth ruining her family? I mean, hey, if not you maybe she'll find someone else, but at least you would not feel responsible, ya know? If this continues, & she really keeps trying and it becomes more serious, you should tell her you 2 need to talk & discuss with her your concerns. Are you friends with her husband? This is a tough one, but good luck!

Answer 7

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I had sex with my boss in the office?
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Answer 8

Rule number one ...don't sleep with the next door neighbor,
Rule numiber two .. don't sleep with a co-worker,
Rule number three ... Never, but Never bang the boss !!

You have invalidated all your work to date at this job by doing the boss..... If you move up in the company ..its cause you banged the boss ....start over

Answer 9

Time to ask for a raise...
Just kidding. Messing with a married woman is always a bad idea as is sleeping with your boss. This is a triple threat as her husband works there too.
My advice, ask for a transfer to another department if you can. That is the only way to avoid her getting pissed at you for breaking it off and taking it out on you. Proving sexual harassment is gonig to be tough seeing as you were a willing participant until fairly recently.

Answer 10

STOP!!! If you continue, others WILL be emotionally hurt, you may be physically hurt (by her husband) and you most definitely will lose your job. In all honesty, you should start looking for other employment right now to put an end to any further complications. The old adage of "if it feels good, do it" really should never have been spoken.

Answer 11

I had a similiar experience only difference was her husband did not work with us. Only advice I can give you is to put on your best running shoes and run away as fast as you can. Where do you think this relationship will end? Chances are it will end when she gets tired of you and moves on to the next guy. Best case for you is she leaves her husband for you and then you have a wonderful trusting relationship (oh wait but you cant trust her).