my husband and i are scared because are baby girl is way to pretty. we are scared that guy are going to be all over her. should we worry or are we being crazy. we are already thinking of ways to scared the little boy off. we just want to protect her from boys every one is telling us we should buy an gun to scare the boys off but wont this make her rebel agiant us?
2006-10-03 08:44:28 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You sound like a wonderful person, but you really ought to lighten up on the unnecessary worrying! Be thankful that your daughter is so healthy & beautiful - help her grown into her beauty by teaching her how to act, dress and speak like a lady. It's never too early to start, and if you do that she'll know exactly how to handle boys - big and little ones! God bless!
2006-10-03 08:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband has been planning his scare-away tactics since we found out I was pregnant with a girl! We all worry that boys will take advantage of our beautiful baby girls. But in my opinion i think that the best way to prevent this problem is that we all need to raise our handsome little boys to love and respect the little girls. (and vise versa, of course) If we each do our part as parents our kids can have a brighter, safer feature!
2006-10-03 16:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lesley C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are taking this a little too far!! Our daughters are vey beautiful too, but that is a blessing! Teach her her strength, and also that education is number one and she will grow to be a confidant powerful successful independant woman. Teach life skills, including about boys, don't leave it up to her to figure out things on her own, and as always supervise you children. Never leave them alone with the opposite sex, we also NEVER let our children go outside without one of us EVER by themsleves. it is just not safe these days, with all the child rapes and abductions. Be cautiouse, but do not smother them, mother them! being a mother is not only protecting them but also teaching them life skills. DO not take it too far or she will resent you for it, and go look for male attention just to spite you. Oh and as far as the gun thing goes, that is just ludicris!!! SO you would rather put her life in danger? Do you have any idea how many in home accidental gun shootings there are?? and besides how exactly would simply purchasing a gun ward off unwanted male attnetion? what are you gonna strap it to her forhead? Try to at least be logical in your approach to dealing with this! Good luck!
2006-10-03 16:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, everyone things their child is the prettiest...and thats NOT to say your child isn't beautiful. But, be realistic...yes, worry, its part of your job as a parent. But, to think of buying a gun to scare off little boys?? Raise her right, teach her to be a lady, to have confidence...if you are really worried about someone harming her, teach her self defense.
2006-10-03 15:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Trixie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Funny. As a mother of three handsome boys I always worried how I would protect my sons from the little girls.
2006-10-03 16:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be happy that she is pretty and think positive, always see the best in everyone that surrounds your family, and you'll be more likely to get that in reality. People, when really looking at it, often do what you expect of them, no matter what that may be. Even if they originally had evil intentions, they made be changed due to your personal expectation, and be a benefit to you, A blessing.
2006-10-03 15:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teach her about boys and their ways, give her the self confidence to say "no" and mean it. Show her everyday how a women SHOULD be treated by a man. Raise her well and teach her to wait for love.
2006-10-03 15:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Juniper C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you need to enjoy your new child and worry about raising her and teaching her all the skills she is going to need to become an intelligent young woman, not whether or not she'll attract alot of male attention. You don't need a gun, all you need is love.
2006-10-03 15:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont try and scare the boys off! this will make her a rebel all you have to do is rais her smart!!! Tell her what is right and what is wrong ...When your paerents told you not to do something that made you want to do it even more right?
2006-10-03 15:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by JUst ask 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to raise her the best you can and hopefully she will only attract guys that you would approve of.
I wouldn't worry so much until the time is here!
2006-10-03 15:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by someoneoutthere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋